Recalibrating Judgment & Criticism

I've recognized that I'm pretty critical and judgmental in identifying others' manner recently. It pops up in my thoughts more and more frequently and is less protected through my language than it has been before. Now, I am hyper aware of how it manifests in my advice I try to offer when queried or how I may be unduly reinforcing the same negative patterns in others. At a minimum, I am being unfair to those I am being critical of.There's room for different manners in execution that can still be authentic and purposeful even though they don't fit and pattern against our own beliefs or values. Maybe to be laconic, I'm just trying to fix my skewed tolerance.