Recognizing Early Warning Signs of Physical Abuse in Relationships

Send us Fan Mail This Still Waters Podcast episode examines physical abuse as a means of power and control, often starting before visible injuries. Referencing Darby Strickland’s definition, it addresses both overt harm (hitting, slapping, choking) and subtler intimidation tactics (threats, breaking objects, blocking exits, restraint, reckless driving, sleep deprivation). Teri discusses the escalation cycle and warns against dismissing abusive behaviors. Highlighting Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month, the episode notes red flags in teen relationships and distinguishes physical abuse from accidents, consensual roughhousing, or mutual aggression. Listeners are encouraged to seek support, local resources, and make a safety plan.  00:00 Introduction 00:47 Excuses & Early Warning Signs 01:54 Defining Physical Abuse: Power & Safety 03:12 Examples: Choking, Reckless Driving 04:34 Intimidation Without Contact 06:45 Breaking Objects & Blocking Exits 09:49 Non-Visible Abuse: Restraint, Sleep Loss 12:17 Abuse Escalation Cycle 15:17 Real-Life Cases & Anger in Scripture 17:39 “Once” Claims & Teen Dating Red Flags 19:22 What Doesn't Count as Physical Abuse 20:36 Closing: Trusting Yourself & Seeking Help  Contact The Still Waters Team www.stillwaterslife.comEmail us at:[email protected]@[email protected]@[email protected]@stillwaterslife.comLet us help you find healing and wellness at The Still Waters.