Reminder for whomever needs it: You didn’t become selfish; you became harder to manipulate…!

Please don’t confuse those two.! Break free of the manipulation tactics that have kept us in a chock hole for way too long.! We don’t always have to feel the need to defend ourselves.! We don’t always have to argue our points and perspectives.! Just start wishing folks well and save your energy fam’ly.! Start trusting peoples energy vs just their words.! Y’all gotta get better in tune and tap into your discernment.! When your trying to heal, you can’t keep throwing salt on open wounds.! We can’t punish people for not being who we wanted them to be…or felt they should’ve been.! Let’s choose new beginnings with more love 💗 and understanding.!