EPISODE · Aug 12, 2026 · 16 MIN
Resolving Conflict
from Turn it Up! Marriage Tips and Tools · host by Kelly DuPée
Do you avoid conflict in your marriage because every time you try to work through it, it turns into a fight? Christian marriage coach and police chaplain Kelly DuPee teaches a biblical approach to conflict resolution in marriage — 7 steps for having a calm, confrontational conversation and saying the hard thing with love, clarity, and without starting a war.------------------------------------------------In this video you will learn:- Why avoiding conflict isn't "keeping the peace" — it's keeping score, and how buried hurt eventually explodes- The biggest lie about confrontation (and why avoidance, not honesty, is really the opposite of love)- A simple, biblical framework for conflict resolution in marriage — how to prepare your heart before you say a word- An "I statement" formula that names the hurt without throwing a weapon- How to make a clear, respectful request — and the difference between forgiveness and reconciliationWhether you are dealing with ongoing conflict in your marriage, a recurring argument, or something you have been afraid to say for months — this video will give you a practical, faith-based path forward.------------------------------------------------Scriptures referenced: Proverbs 27:5, Ephesians 4:15, Ephesians 4:26, 1 Corinthians 13:4-5, Proverbs 15:1, James 1:19, Matthew 7:7, Colossians 3:13------------------------------------------------For personalized help, book your free 30-minute strategy call — visit turnitup.coach or call or text 626-804-1731 or schedule online at https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-strategy-callGet your free digital copy of my book, Turn It Up — How to Have the Lifelong Marriage That You Really Want: https://turnitup.coach/75Download my free Couples Communication Guide: https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguideWatch my video on the 4 levels of communication (the volume knob): https://youtu.be/n-kOO3BfeU0------------------------------------------------ABOUT KELLYKelly DuPee is a Christian marriage coach, ordained pastor, and author who helps couples avoid the pain of divorce so that they can have the marriage God wants them to have. He holds a Master's degree in theology and a Bachelor's degree in psychology — a combination that allows him to offer both biblically grounded and research-based solutions to marriage challenges. After 35 years serving as an associate pastor at a megachurch, Kelly stepped into full-time Christian marriage coaching while continuing his ministry as an ordained pastor and active police chaplain serving his local department and community. His chaplaincy work has equipped him to help couples and individuals process traumatic experiences, de-escalate conflict, communicate more effectively, and grieve loss. Married to his wife for almost 39 years, Kelly has coached hundreds of couples from across the United States and internationally. His approach is practical, faith-based, and built on nearly four decades of walking with real people through real marriage struggles.---------------------------------------------#christianmarriage #christianmarriagecoach #marriageadvice #marriagehelp #marriagecommunication #biblicalmarriage #christiancouple #relationshipadvice #marriagetips #christianliving#conflictresolution #conflictinmarriage #confrontation #forgiveness
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