Respond vs React: How to Handle Life's Curveballs

Send us Fan MailResponding instead of reacting changes what happens after life throws you a curveball. In Part 1 of this two part conversation, Reignite Resilience hosts Natalie Davis and Pamela Cass sit down for an unscripted coffee talk episode built around one idea: the gap between an incident and your emotional response matters more than the incident itself.The conversation opens with Natalie recording on the road this summer and Pam catching her watching her plants on camera from a hotel room, which leads into a story about a nest of baby birds that Pam watched fledge at a Fourth of July barbecue. From there, Natalie and Pam turn to a pattern they both notice in their own lives: how often small, unexpected things happen, from medical emergencies on airplanes to a guest canceling an interview an hour before airtime, which is exactly what happened to them today.That last minute cancellation becomes the hosts' live example for the rest of the episode. Natalie breaks down the cycle most people get stuck in after something goes wrong: the physical reaction, the emotional response, and then the judgment that turns into a story you keep repeating to yourself. Pam introduces the "but did you die" philosophy she picked up from a friend's t shirt, and the two hosts trace how focusing on one bad moment invites you to keep finding more of them. The episode closes with Pam's story about a rental car toll booth mishap in Ireland that the hosts turned into one of their favorite travel stories instead of a source of stress.In This Episode:Why the pause between an incident and your response matters more than the incidentWhat happened when today's scheduled guest canceled an hour before recordingThe stimulus, emotion, judgment, story cycle that keeps people stuck after setbacksThe "but did you die" philosophy for putting problems into perspectiveWhy focusing on one bad moment invites you to notice more of themPart 2 of this conversation continues with more unexpected travel stories and closes out the episode. Natalie and Pam prove that the story you tell yourself after something goes wrong matters more than the thing that went wrong.The Quiet Gift: A Journey of Self Worth and Resilience is now available for download as an audible.  Check it out!Support the showSubscribe to Our Weekly ThinkLetter FacebookInstagramCheck out our Book Series:The Quiet Gift: A Journey of Self Worth and ResilienceMagical Mornings JournalDisclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for general informational purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The co-hosts of this podcast are not medical professionals. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on this podcast. Reliance on any information provided by the podcast hosts or guests is solely at your own risk.Pamela Cass is a licensed broker with Kentwood Real EstateNatalie Davis is a licensed broker with Keller Williams Realty Downtown, LLC