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拉迪亚德·吉卜林是十九世纪末英国诗人，于1907年获得诺贝尔文学奖。这首《如果》是拉迪亚德·吉卜林写给即将奔赴一战战场儿子的励志诗，据说迈克尔·杰克逊的妈妈把它刻在儿子的墓碑上。许多人，特别是青少年常以此勉励自己。 If By Rudyard Kipling If you can keep your head when all about you are losing theirs and blaming it on you If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you But make allowance for their doubting too If you can wait and not be tired by waiting Or being lied about don't deal in lies Or being hated don't give way to hating And yet don't look too good nor talk too wise If you can dream and not make dreams your master If you can think and not make thoughts your aim If you can meet with triumph and disaster And treat those two impostors just the same If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools Or watch the things you gave your life to broken And stoop and build'em up with worn out tools If you can make one heap of all your winnings And risk it on one turn of pitch and toss And lose and start again at your beginnings And never breathe a word about your loss If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew To serve your turn long after they are gone And so hold on when there is nothing in you Except the will which says to them ' Hold on ' If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue Or walk with kings nor lose the common touch If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you If all men count with you but none too much If you can fill the unforgiving minute With sixty seconds' worth of distance run Yours is the earth and everything that's in it and which is more you'll be a Man, my son 诺贝尔奖得主吉卜林写给12岁儿子的诗 如果 如果在众人六神无主之时 你镇定自若而不是人云亦云 如果被众人猜忌怀疑时 你能自信如常而不去枉加辩论 如果你肯耐心等待不急不躁 或遭人诽谤却不以牙还牙 或遭人憎恨却不以恶报恶 既不装腔作势 亦不趾高气昂 如果你有梦想 又能不迷失自我 如果你有神思 又不至于走火入魔 如果在成功之中能不忘形于色 而在灾难之后也勇于咀嚼苦果 如果看到自己追求的美好 破灭为一摊零碎的瓦砾 也不说放弃 如果你辛苦劳作 已是功成名就 为了新目标 你依旧冒险一搏 哪怕功名成乌有 如果你跟村夫交谈而不变谦恭之态 和王侯散步而不露谄媚之颜 如果他人的爱左右不了你 如果你与任何人为伍都能卓然独立 如果昏惑的骚扰动摇不了你的意志 你能等自己平心静气再做答时 那么，你的修养就会如天地般博大 而你，就是个真正的男子汉了 我的儿子