S.2, Ep. 5: Where Are the Zaddies?

🎧 Listener discretion is advised.You know the gist, but we’ll say it again: Welcome to the table — a safe, sexy, and unapologetic space where Black joy, creativity, community, and pleasure are always on the menu. The Unfriendly Black Hotties are here to educate & stimulate — and we love using our words to amplify Black voices through bold, unfiltered conversations.Here at the lunch table, we keep it flavorful, colorful, and always authentic, diving deep into:* Erotica* Kink* Love & Intimacy* RomanceWe’re not here to compromise our truths — we’re here to get off. So, turn us on. Lunch is served!👩🏾‍🦱 This Episode’s Hotties* Mars * Trisha Cheeks A table for two. 💭 Episode 5 SummaryWe’ll be talking about something most of our listeners enjoy: zaddies. What are they? Who are they? What are our experiences? And who are some of the best zaddy (or cougar) examples in pop culture today? And our age gap tropes setting an appropriate ideal, and should it be a standard?🔑 Key Words (Source: Merriam-Webster Online)CougarZaddy🎶 Ep. 5 Playlist 3Lunch at the Unfriendly Black Hotties Table Podcast: A WBQC ProductionS. 2, Ep. 4: What About Your Friends? The Basics of Intersectionality, Community, & Accountability530:00Current time: 0:00 / Total time: -1:19:06-1:19:06S. 2, Ep. 4: What About Your Friends? The Basics of Intersectionality, Community, & AccountabilityThis is the 101 class for something we’re cooking up for the summer ☀️🎙️ WBQC: Presented by the BQCMay 20, 2026🎧 Listener discretion is advised.You know the gist, but we’ll say it again: Welcome to the table — a safe, sexy, and unapologetic space where Black joy, creativity, community, and pleasure are always on the menu. The Unfriendly Black Hotties are here to educate & stimulate — and we love using our words to amplify Black voices through bold, unfiltered conversations.Here at the lunch table, we keep it flavorful, colorful, and always authentic, diving deep into:* Erotica* Kink* Love & Intimacy* RomanceWe’re not here to compromise our truths — we’re here to get off. So, turn us on. Lunch is served!👩🏾‍🦱 This Episode’s Hotties* Wips* Regina Starr* The Voice of the Voiceless, the incomparable Trisha Cheeks💭 Ep. 4 SummaryCultivating intersectional community — what are the events that make actionable items come to fruition?* How are people being held accountable?* What is community, and can one cultivate community without inclusivity?* What is a community to you?* How do some bad actors and agents of chaos impact the larger work?* Are there some things preventing people from moving forward?* What is the adversity from one group to another?🧆 The Hot Line🤓 SourcesDefinitions (via the marvel of all words, Merriam-Webster)* Community* Intersectionality* Intersectional Feminism* 3rd Wave feminism* Attitude* Weaponizing* Discernment* IntentionalityTalking points* Staying 10 toes down on what your actions* What does authentic intersectionality mean to the audience/listener/viewer?Blog/Article ReferencesLunch at the Unfriendly Black Hotties PodcastEp. 9: I’m Grown and I Do What I Want: Policing Black Bodies and Sexualities and How We Fight Back🎙️ WBQC: Presented by the BQC·September 17, 2025Listen now* The Power of Community: Why It Matters for Black Women* Black Women: A History of Creating Our Own Spaces by Amalfi Parker Elder, Esq. and Patrice Tillery* The Culture Shelf: Black Women Taught Us - A conversation with Jenn M. Smith, PhD* African American women and social equality, K. Sue Jewell* Black Women Been Knew: Understanding Intersectionality to Advance Justice by Brandi BlessettLunch at the Unfriendly Black Hotties PodcastEp. 10: Hypersexuality, Black Women, and Neurodivergency🎙️ WBQC: Presented by the BQC·October 29, 2025A note from the editor: Hey, y’all — this is The Artist Formerly Known as Trisha Cheeks. I want to start off by apologizing to the homies at WBQC for the delay in this upload. I got into my head about editing when I woke up today and said “f**k! I can edit the thing IN Substack. I am such a loon.”Listen now🎶 Ep. 3 PlaylistThis would normally be a part of the program where we post a custom-built playlist created by the Hotties, however, we were all about girlfriends and community and found family this week, that we decided to say “f**k it,” and bogart the smash 1995 soundtrack of the movie, identically-titled Waiting to Exhale.You cannot beat this soundtrack and this iconic video by the late Whitney Houston. IDK a millennial woman who hasn’t fantasized about having this tight of a shot during a bedroom music video shoot for a song you’re also the star of a movie of. Like, come on, now.📣 Be Good & Follow UsLike what you’ve heard on this and previous episodes? Follow and subscribe to “Lunch at the Unfriendly Black Hotties Table” podcast below:* Substack* Instagram* Bluesky* YouTube* Spotify* Apple Podcasts#health #intimacy #relationships #love #couples #BlackWomen #podcast #podcasts #kinks #audios #audioerotica #parasocialrelationships #onlineculture #stanculture #fandom #fanatics #celebrity #fame #community #friendship #foundfamily This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit wbqc.substack.com