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EPISODE · Mar 29, 2026 · 1H 3M

S1 E5 | Activity: Gentle Presence Lights the Way

from Self-Led Besties! · host Christine Dixon, Hallie Shapiro & David Hilton

In this episode, Hallie leads David and Christine (and you) through an incredibly helpful exercise to get to know parts around a polarization and then to bring them together to find a Self-led consensus. Hallie starts with the prompt, "What is something you/parts of you have been putting off?” and leads us to get to know the parts who want to do the thing and the parts who block/resist it. She guides us toward gentle inquiry of each part/set of parts to find out their fears, needs, values, and requests. At the end, we all share for what came up for us in the experiment/experience. Feel free to join us in doing the exercise and share your experience in the comments or just listen to our experiences. You cannot get it wrong! 0:00 Intro0:11 Theme Song0:35 Exercise Preview1:51 Exercise Overview6:54 Finding a Trailhead8:17 First Part's Questions P111:33 First Part's Questions P212:39 First Part's Questions P313:21 Second Part's Questions P116:18 Second Part's Questions P216:45 Second Part's Questions P317:24 Spending Time With Vulnerable Parts20:23 Bringing Parts Together21:54 Sharing Part's Perspectives24:43 Inviting a Consensus25:54 Exercise Conclusion27:53 David's Experience36:01 Christine's Experience48:05 Exercise Reflection56:40 Hallie's Experience1:00:14 Closing & Goodbyes1:02:23 Theme Song1:03:23 Like & Subscribe!

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