S2 E4: Personal Interlude: Feeling Used and Abused episode artwork

EPISODE · Sep 8, 2025 · 27 MIN

S2 E4: Personal Interlude: Feeling Used and Abused

from Sniffing Out The Bullsh*t · host Sabrina Chevannes

Ever had someone slide into your DMs with:“Can I pick your brain?”“Let’s grab a coffee so I can run this idea by you?”Or my personal favourite: “Hey, can you get me on a TEDx stage?”It sounds harmless… maybe even flattering. But if you’re an entrepreneur, you know how quickly these “little asks” add up. Suddenly, generosity turns into exploitation.In this episode, I open up about what it’s really like to feel used and abused in business. From people ghosting after free dinners, to “networking coffees” that turned into hidden TEDx agendas, to endless requests for free advice - I’ve felt it all.This isn’t just my problem, though. It’s a bigger cultural issue: visibility online makes people think they’re entitled to your time, your contacts, your expertise - for free.I’ll share how I’ve been dealing with it, what the psychology says about reciprocity and burnout, and the simple system I’m using now to stay generous without draining myself dry.👉 If you’ve ever felt undervalued, overwhelmed, or just tired of people wanting everything for free - this one’s for you.Sabrina's Social Links🌏 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Podcast Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌏 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Sabrina’s Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🎙 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠No Bullsh*t Talks - Guest Podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠📺 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Podcast YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠👩🏽‍💻⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠📸 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🐦 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⏰ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Episode metadata supplied by the publisher feed · Published Sep 8, 2025

Embed this episode

NOW PLAYING

S2 E4: Personal Interlude: Feeling Used and Abused

0:00 27:53

No transcript for this episode yet

We transcribe on demand. Request one and we'll notify you when it's ready — usually under 10 minutes.

No similar episodes found.

No similar podcasts found.

Frequently Asked Questions

How long is this episode of Sniffing Out The Bullsh*t?

This episode is 27 minutes long.

When was this Sniffing Out The Bullsh*t episode published?

This episode was published on September 8, 2025.

Can I download this Sniffing Out The Bullsh*t episode?

Yes. Use the download control on the episode player to save the publisher-provided media file.
URL copied to clipboard!