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EPISODE · Jun 2, 2026 · 20 MIN

S4 E7 Forget Breathwork + Cold Dips, Orgasms Are Medicine For Your Nervous System

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Still grinding through your to-do list, stuck in your head, and wondering why the meditation isn't working? Your nervous system might be the missing piece - and the solution is a lot more fun than you think.In this episode, resilience coach Alex breaks down what nervous system regulation actually means (hint: it's not about being permanently calm), why so many of us stay stuck in a stress response without even realising it, and why the standard advice of breathwork and cold dips is only part of the story.We explore the full spectrum of regulation tools available to you - from dancing and boxing to pleasure and orgasms - and why these are just as scientifically valid as any breathing technique. We also get into the deeper work: why feeling your feelings is one of the most overlooked foundations of regulation, how self-trust underpins everything, and why your nervous system - not your willpower - is the real reason you self-sabotage.If you've ever felt like you're doing all the right things and still can't seem to get out of your own way, this episode will change how you see yourself.Topics covered:What a regulated nervous system actually looks likeWhy we get stuck in fight, flight, and freeze - and what it costs usDynamic regulation tools beyond breathwork (including orgasms)How hormones affect women's nervous systems differentlyThe link between nervous system capacity and self-sabotageWhy success literally requires safety in your nervous systemHow to start building new neural pathways through pleasure and connectionFind Alex: Instagram @alexresiliencecoach | shore-coaching.comIf you enjoyed this episode you can sign up for 5 Resilience Coaching Questions to Change Your Life .Here are links for:Exploring The Herbtender range of wellness solutions (use code ADAPT20 for 20%).1:1 resilience coaching - book a free intro call here.Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!):https://uppbeat.io/t/paul-yudin/breaking-ideasLicense code: 6NHMOGUA1OQR97OC

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Still grinding through your to-do list, stuck in your head, and wondering why the meditation isn't working? Your nervous system might be the missing piece - and the solution is a lot more fun than you think. In this episode, resilience coach Alex breaks down what nervous system regulation actually means (hint: it's not about being permanently calm), why so many of us stay stuck in a stress response without even realising it, and why the standard advice of breathwork and cold dips is only part...

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