S4E2: Evie's Legacy & Sands Awareness

Send us Fan Mail----Most people think grief ends after a certain time but what if we shifted the narrative to see it as a lifelong journey? Suz’s raw story of losing her daughter Evie and her work supporting other bereaved parents reveals the surprising truths about childhood loss and the healing power of honest, compassionate conversations. In this heartfelt episode, Suz shares the profound impact of her 12-year grief journey — from navigating difficult hospital experiences to writing a children's book that helps other families explain abrupt loss to young kids. You’ll discover why language matters more than ever after a child’s death, and how the words of compassionate midwives and loved ones can unintentionally deepen pain or allow genuine healing.We break down:The importance of shifting our language to avoid blame and guilt, especially when discussing pregnancy and lossHow to support bereaved parents without minimizing their pain or offering clichés like “at least...”The delicate process of explaining death to children in a way that is honest but gentleWhy sharing stories, even dark humour, is a powerful tool to cope and connect with others in griefSuz’s advice for anyone in the trenches of grief and how to foster empathy in loved ones, friends, and caregivers This episode is perfect for parents who have lost a child, professionals working with grieving families, and anyone questioning how to handle their own lifelong grief. If you’re tired of superficial solutions and ready for real, human stories that challenge the stigma and shame around childhood loss, this conversation is essential listening. Suz is a bereaved mother, volunteer with Sands, and author of a heartfelt children's book about grief. Her openness, compassion, and honesty shine through as she navigates the complex layers of love, loss, and legacy  forever carrying her daughter’s memory as a guiding star. Whether you're walking through grief yourself or seeking to support someone who is, this episode will shift your perspective on loss, reminding us that grief isn’t a problem to fix, but a part of the human experience to honour and understand.You buy 'Born to be a Star' here:Born To Be A Star by Suzanne Brooks | WaterstonesBorn To Be A Star: Amazon.co.uk: Suzanne Brooks, Nicholas Child: 9781035809745: BooksYou also can find Suz on social media: @mrsbrookslovebooks