Season 3. Ep 3. How to Get — and Keep — a Restraining Order That Actually Protects You

862.800.7850 Tracey Bee breaks down civil vs. criminal restraining orders as it relates to Family Court issues. She also goes into things like why requests get denied, and how to build a stronger application if you’re self‑represented or working with counsel. Learn what judges need to see, how to present testimony, what evidence matters, and options if an order is denied And if you're in northern NJ liste  for details for a FREE in person event where she'l  be guving away free gifts, free strategy sessions and prizes.  Episode timestamps- 0:00–2:00 Intro & Domestic Violence Awareness Month  - 2:00–9:00 Civil vs. criminal orders; why each matters  - 9:00–13:00 Preparing to file: know the judge & local process  - 13:00–20:00 What to prove: incident + fear; avoid misuse  - 20:00–27:00 Best evidence & how to testify effectively  - 27:00–32:44 Next steps, NJ event (Oct 25, Jersey City) & booking strategy sessions- 32:26 OutroTop takeaways (actionable)- Prepare before you file: learn local rules, know the judge, and gather admissible evidence.  - Prioritize police reports, medical records, time‑stamped photos/videos, credible witnesses, and authenticated messages.  - Speak from emotion (clear, focused narrative) not with uncontrolled emotion; presentation influences judges.  - If denied, consider alternative filings (civil vs. criminal) and use denials strategically in custody/divorce matters.  - Contact DV advocates and observe court to identify judges who handle DV requests. Quick evidence checklistPolice report(s), medical records (source of injury), time/date-stamped photos/videos, authenticated audio/screenshots, credible witnesses, CPS records (if kids involved). Resources & CTA- Book a strategy session at thedivorcesolutionist.com (store → strategy sessions).  - NJ listeners: In-person DV Awareness Walk — Oct 25, Lincoln Park, Jersey City (15‑minute on‑site strategy sessions).  - Visit www.thedivorcesolutionist.com for more resources.Support the showFamily Court can be traumatic! And trying to handle your case on your own can be even more catastrophic. There are twists & turns at every stage that you need to be aware of and to prepare for. Having a solid Gameplan and someone to help you execute it effectively can make all the difference in the Universe (not just the world.) We know all about the bias, corruption, and dysfunction being handed out by the system. We just want you to have a fighting chance by leveling the playing field.Need help in handling your Family Court case on your own?We have services that are specifically geared toward helping self-represented litigants like you understand the common mistakes that lead to the most disappointing outcomes.To find out more about our services and to stay informed of our FREE workshops by joining our email & visit us at www.TheDivorceSolutionist.com.