Selfish as Sacred: Choosing Self-Honour Over Self-Sacrifice in Divorce

Send us Fan MailYou didn't become selfish. You became self-honouring.What if being called “selfish” isn’t an insult, but a sign you’re finally choosing yourself?In this episode, we explore the powerful shift from self-abandonment to self-honouring in relationships, through separation and during divorce.If you’ve been made to feel guilty for setting boundaries, prioritising your needs, or no longer being easily controlled, this is your reminder:You didn’t become selfish. You became self-honouring.You became sovereign.Listen to hear:The difference between selfishness and self-responsibilityHow guilt and manipulation show up (louder, stronger) when you start honouring yourselfWhat self-honouring actually looks like in real life (especially in divorce and reorganising life afterwards)This is a reclamation.Of your needs. Your boundaries. Your peace.Because selfish?Maybe it’s sacred.Sallyanne Hartnell - Divorce Coach & StrategistHow you can work with meBook a free intro callFree Resources & Downloads- Choose You Guidebook- Having Hard Conversations - done for you scripts- Divorce with Less Drama - The MasterclassJoin the Reflect VIP Mailing ListFollow me on INSTAGRAMAll relationships are welcomed and supported at Reflect Coaching 🏳️‍🌈This podcast is recorded on the land of the Wurundjeri people, the Traditional Custodians of this Land & its first story tellers. I pay respect to the Elders both past and present of the Kulin Nation & to any First Nations people listening.Please note: all podcast content is general information only, not legal advice or information. Please seek specialist advice to support you & your unique circumstances.