EPISODE · Feb 8, 2026 · 43 MIN
[SERMON] Guesswork vs Guardrails | The Rules of Us
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Send us Fan MailEver feel like you're just guessing your way through relationships—hoping you say the right thing or avoid the wrong buttons? In this message, Pastor Kyle reveals why so many relationships struggle: we're relying on guesswork instead of guardrails.Drawing from his own marriage, Cyle shares how he and his wife Patty created 169 specific rules to navigate communication, conflict, and commitment. These aren't restrictive regulations—they're life-giving guidelines that protect love in both peaceful seasons and heated moments.You'll discover:Why love needs guardrails, not guesswork5 practical relationship rules you can use today (the "Oreo Method," "No Kitchen Sinking," and more)How to pause fights and create rules that prevent future conflictWhy what you don't define in peace, conflict will define for youWhether you're navigating friendships, family dynamics, or marriage, this teaching offers practical biblical tools to stop tearing each other down and start building each other up.Key Scriptures: Ephesians 4:29 | Colossians 4:6 | 1 Corinthians 13:5 | Proverbs 15:28
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Send us Fan Mail Ever feel like you're just guessing your way through relationships—hoping you say the right thing or avoid the wrong buttons? In this message, Pastor Kyle reveals why so many relationships struggle: we're relying on guesswork instead of guardrails. Drawing from his own marriage, Cyle shares how he and his wife Patty created 169 specific rules to navigate communication, conflict, and commitment. These aren't restrictive regulations—they're life-giving guidelines that protect l...
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[SERMON] Guesswork vs Guardrails | The Rules of Us
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