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Send us Fan MailThe HOTLCast crew tackle one of the most common faith questions they receive: is drinking alcohol a sin? They dig into what the Bible actually says, from Old Testament passages celebrating wine to Jesus' own first miracle at the wedding in Cana, and unpack the key distinction Scripture draws between drinking and drunkenness.The conversation gets personal as Ryan shares his five years of sobriety, Matt reflects on the denomination's evolving standards, and the group discusses why alcohol — even if technically permissible — may not be beneficial for everyone. They also walk through the United Brethren Church's official position and what it means to be "mastered" by anything.Whether you're curious about what Christianity really teaches on this topic or wrestling with it personally, this episode offers an honest, grace-filled conversation grounded in scripture.

Send us Fan MailCyle, Ryan, and Mark record with a literal empty chair — two regulars are out — but it ends up being the perfect backdrop for this episode. They recap a landmark moment for their church: canceling regular Sunday services to gather 700 people (including visitors from as far as California, Virginia, and Pennsylvania) at a beach campground for an outdoor worship service under a big tent. Cyle shares the message he preached — "The Empty Chair" — a challenge to think about the lost people in your life and what you're doing to invite them in. Ryan shares his own story of being someone else's "empty chair" before he was invited to Heart of Lakes, and the guys get into the real, relational side of sharing faith without pressure or fear.

Send us Fan MailIn this powerful outdoor worship service at Somerset Beach Campground, Pastor Cyle brings together multiple churches and campuses for a united Sunday gathering under one tent. Preaching from Luke 14:23, Luke 19:10, and Matthew 9:37-38, Pastor Cyle challenges believers to look beyond their own filled seats and focus on the empty chair — the person in their life who hasn't yet met Jesus. With humor, honesty, and heartfelt conviction, he calls the church to move beyond membership and into mission: inviting the lost, serving their communities, using their God-given talents, and giving generously so that no chair stays empty. Whether at Somerset Beach, in your local church, or across the street from your home, the message is clear — someone is missing, and you have a role in reaching them.

Send us Fan MailOne of the most common questions skeptics ask about the Bible — and one that Christians sometimes struggle to answer. In this episode, we dig into Genesis to tackle the question head-on: If Adam and Eve were the first people, who exactly did Cain marry?We explore what Scripture actually says, the leading theories among Biblical scholars, the genetics behind why God later prohibited close-relative marriage in Leviticus, and why this question isn't as scandalous as it sounds when you understand the full context of creation — and even Noah's ark.Whether you're a longtime believer or just curious about the Bible, this is an honest, thoughtful conversation about a tough question of faith.

Send us Fan MailCyle, Ryan, Matt, and Mark, kick things off with a laugh about Mark's fading pink hair from a recent student challenge, then take a detour into the lost art of chain letters (and whether it's time to bring them back). Cyle shares his excitement over a Kickstarter board game called The Game Makers — a worker-placement game about building iconic board games — sparking a conversation about everyone's board game history and those early-morning sessions with cameraman Nick.The guys also preview the upcoming Pathfinder Camp (July 19–21), talking about the power of early faith experiences and the life change already happening among the 60+ students attending or serving at camp this summer.The main conversation digs into the Sunday message from the Hollywood series, centered on the Angel Studios film Solo Mio. The crew discusses how God's plan rarely looks like the one we mapped out — whether it's being deployed three days after 9/11, an unexpected pivot away from music education, a chance meeting at a funeral, or a calling to pastoral ministry felt on a bus. Drawing on Romans 8:28, Cyle encourages listeners that the unexpected moments — good and bad — are all working together toward something bigger.

Send us Fan MailLife doesn't always go according to plan — and that's okay. In this message, Pastor Cyle uses the movie Solo Mio as a jumping-off point to explore what happens when life's "altar moments" don't go the way we expected. From being stood up at the wedding to the stories of Joseph, Moses, Naomi, and the disciples, we see a pattern: God specializes in rewriting stories.Rooted in Romans 8:28 — "All things work together for good for those who love God" — this sermon challenges us to stop mourning the story we wanted and start trusting the story God is writing. Pain is never wasted when we let God transform it.Whether you're walking through heartbreak, loss, uncertainty, or disappointment, this message is for you.

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of the HOTLCast, Cyle, Cody, Ryan, and Mark reunite to recap Sunday's sermon from the Holla Woods series, inspired by the movie GOAT. The crew kicks things off with a lively debate about who deserves the Greatest of All Time title — from Michael Jordan and Lionel Messi to the Apostle Paul — before diving into the real heart of the message: dreaming big God's way.The guys explore what it looks like to stop building your own kingdom and start pursuing God's dream for your life, drawing from Ephesians 3 and the idea that God can do "more than we could ever think or ask." They tackle the "unlimited money" question as a spiritual gut-check, challenge the cultural myth that following Jesus means an easy, comfortable life, and talk about what it means to embrace delayed gratification in an instant-gratification world. The episode wraps with a simple but powerful daily practice: before your feet hit the floor, pray "Lord, interrupt my plans with yours today" — and mean it.Also: pink hair updates, Dinner With Friends testimonials, and hidden goats in a church projection.

Send us Fan MailWhat does a basketball-playing goat have to do with your life's purpose?In this week's message from our HOTLWOOD sermon series — where we find God's truth in the movies — we dive into the animated film Goat and discover that the biggest life isn't built by chasing your dreams. It's built by surrendering to God.Will the Goat wasn't supposed to be a roarball star. Nobody thought a goat could compete at that level. But he dared to dream big — and that's exactly what God asks of us. Ephesians 3:20 reminds us that God "is able to do far more abundantly than all that we ask or think." Our dreams are small. His are not.In this sermon, we explore:Why getting what you want often leaves you miserable — and what to chase insteadHow God uses ordinary people(Joseph, Moses, David, Mary — and maybe you) for extraordinary purposesWhy fear is the #1 dream killer — and what God's Word says to do about itThe difference between building your kingdom and building HisA simple daily prayer that can completely change the direction of your lifeWhether you're holding tightly to your own plans or wondering if God has something more for you, this message is an invitation to trade your dream for something far greater.Challenge of the week: Before your feet hit the floor each morning, pray this: "Lord, interrupt my plans with Yours."--- Part of our HOTLWOOD summer series — finding God's truth in the movies.

Send us Fan MailIn this Father's Day message, Pastor Ryan — a Marine combat veteran and new pastor at Heart o' the Lakes Church — delivers a raw and personal sermon on the difference between being good and looking good. Drawing from his own years of brokenness after returning from Iraq, he unpacks how people develop "rackets" — heart-level strategies to manage their image and avoid vulnerability — as a substitute for real transformation. Using Matthew 23:27-28 (the "whitewashed tombs" passage), Proverbs 4:23, and Matthew 12, he challenges the congregation to identify where they're spending their energy on appearances rather than authentic connection with God and others. He closes with a call to yield to God, embrace vulnerability with a safe, godly person, and trust that true peace lives on the other side of "looking bad."

Send us Fan MailIn this week's HOTLCast, Pastor Matt is joined by Pastor Mark and Sarah — the Brooklyn Campus's new secretary — for a special introductory episode. They kick off with exciting campus updates, including major waterproofing work at the Jackson campus that's reclaiming thousands of square feet of basement space, and the nearly-complete restroom renovation at the Brooklyn campus. The conversation then shifts into a rich discussion on faith and the Philippians sermon series, exploring what it looks like to stay committed to Christ through every season of life — the mountaintops and the valleys. Together, they dig into how personal struggles become powerful tools for ministry, the importance of surrounding yourself with the right community, and why remembering "God is good" can anchor you even in the most chaotic moments. Plus, a preview of the upcoming "At the Movies" sermon series and Father's Day weekend events.

Send us Fan MailIn this sermon from Philippians 4, Pastor Cyle explores the biblical antidote to anxiety — a topic more relevant than ever in our screen-saturated, news-saturated world. Drawing on Paul's words written from prison, he unpacks three transformative truths: that joy is not the absence of problems but the presence of Christ; that peace is not the absence of storms but the presence of a Savior; and that contentment is not having more, but needing nothing more than Jesus. With humor, personal vulnerability — including the loss of his own daughter — and practical application, Pastor Cyle challenges the congregation to replace worry with prayer, guard their minds, and discover the freedom that comes from anchoring their souls in Christ rather than circumstances.

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of the HOTLCast, Pastor Matt sits down with Ryan and Carver to unpack the previous Sunday's sermon on treasure from the Book of Philippians. The conversation digs into what we truly value — from sentimental keepsakes to family and faith — and how the way we spend our time reveals what we actually treasure most. The guys also celebrate the transformative power of summer camp, sharing personal stories from both sides of the counselor/camper experience, and encourage families to get their students connected with Summerset Beach Campground (SBC) this summer. Whether you're wrestling with priorities or looking to pour into the next generation, this episode is a warm and honest conversation you won't want to miss. Find out more at hotlstrong.com

Send us Fan MailIn this message from Philippians 3, Pastor Cyle Young of Heart o' the Lakes Church asks a simple but piercing question: Are you knowing about Christ, or do you actually know Him? Using everything from a $4,000 board game to Michigan championship rings, Pastor Cyle unpacks Paul's radical declaration that all our earthly treasure is rubbish compared to knowing Jesus. He challenges us to stop coasting on a spiritual resume, get out of the parking lot, and press on toward the only prize that matters.Scripture: Philippians 3:7–20

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of the HOTLCast, Cyle, Ryan, Matt, and Mark dig into Philippians 2 and the concept of the "mind of Christ" — what it really means to put others first in a culture that constantly tells us to put ourselves first. They get practical about what selfless living looks like day-to-day: guarding your time less, being intentional in your hobbies and communities, and using everything — card games, sports, work, even a Friday night at a game store — as an opportunity to serve and connect with people for the Kingdom.They also tackle the tension between rest and ministry, asking whether "balance" is even a Biblical concept, and how the way most of us rest (doom scrolling, binging Netflix) looks nothing like how Jesus rested. Honest, funny, and grounded in scripture — this one's a challenge to evaluate whose life you're actually living.Key Topics:The mind of Christ and selfless living (Philippians 2)Practical ways to put others first in everyday lifeUsing hobbies and interests as ministry opportunitiesThe myth of "balance" in ministryRest: Biblical vs. American cultureSelf-righteousness vs. others-focused faith

Send us Fan MailIn this message from Heart o' the Lakes Church, we dive into Philippians 2 and the countercultural concept of humility. In a world that constantly tells us to climb higher, earn more, and build our own brand, Jesus modeled a completely different path — going down the ladder to serve. Through Paul's words and the example of Christ, we explore what it truly means to have the "mind of Christ": valuing others above ourselves, choosing obedience over pride, and understanding that real greatness runs through servanthood. Packed with practical, everyday examples and honest self-reflection, this message challenges us to stop chasing the crown and start carrying the cross.

Send us Fan MailIs masturbation a sin? It's one of the most avoided questions in the church — but Cyle, Cody, and Ryan tackle it head-on on this episode of HOTLCast. They walk through what Scripture actually says about lust, self-control, and sexual immorality, and why the "lesser sin" argument doesn't hold up biblically. They also get real about the shame cycle many people are stuck in, share some surprising statistics about how widespread this struggle is in the church, and offer practical encouragement for anyone who wants to break free. If this is your struggle, you're not alone — and this episode is for you.

Send us Fan MailIn this episode, Cody, Ryan, and Mark talk about Cyle's new series through the book of Philippians — one of the most joyful letters in all of Scripture, written by Paul from prison. The guys explore the difference between joy and happiness, why gratitude is the birthplace of real joy, and what it looks like to choose peace in the middle of chaos. Plus, they celebrate Ryan's official ordination as pastor and share some powerful personal stories along the way. What are you going to focus on — the chains, or the joy?

Send us Fan Mail• In this message from Philippians 1, Pastor Cyle explores one of the most counterintuitive truths in Scripture: the gospel travels well in chains. Writing from house arrest in Rome, Paul didn't just survive hardship — he used it. The guards assigned to watch him heard the gospel. His imprisonment emboldened other believers. What looked like a setback became a setup.• Pastor Cyle walks through the "prisons" we all carry — addiction, bitterness, comparison, shame, depression, unforgiveness, spiritual apathy — and challenges us with a powerful question: What if the very thing you wish God would remove is the very thing He wants to use? • Key takeaway: Mature believers stop making everything about themselves. Joy is possible before the breakthrough comes — because it comes from Christ, not circumstances.

Send us Fan MailWhat does it mean to be clear about what you believe? In this message, Pastor Cyle Young of Heart o' the Lakes Church dives into one small but powerful word — viz. — found in the church's statement of faith. This Latin abbreviation meaning "namely" or "that is to say" leads into a rich conversation about the Christian ordinances of baptism, communion, and foot washing, and why the church must define the essentials while extending grace on everything else.Drawing from Scripture and real-life stories — from hospital-room baptisms to a card game tournament conversation about faith — Pastor Cyle challenges believers to loosen their grip on preferences, stop fighting over methods, and refocus on the mission: loving God, loving people, and pointing the world to Jesus."In essentials, unity. In non-essentials, liberty. And in all else, charity."

Send us Fan MailIs getting a tattoo a sin? Cyle, Cody, and Ryan tackle one of the church's most debated questions on this episode of Faith Questions. From Leviticus 19:28 to Paul's letters on Christian freedom, they dig into what the Old and New Testaments actually say — and what it means to live that out today. Cody shares his personal framework for making thoughtful decisions about tattoos, Ryan opens up about his own ink, and the guys land on a nuanced, grace-filled conclusion: it's not about what you can do, but what honors God and points others to Christ. If you've ever wondered whether body art and faith can coexist, this episode is for you.

Send us Fan MailCyle, Cody, Ryan, and Mark wrap up the Side Quest sermon series by tackling the ultimate Main Quest — knowing Christ and making Him known. After a fun detour into video games, card games, and the future of nursing homes, the crew gets into the real stuff: what it means to pursue Jesus with intention, why so many Christians get lost chasing shiny distractions, and how to bring your side quests back into alignment with the main quest. Cody challenges listeners to not just proclaim Jesus, but to proclaim the right Jesus — one whose character actually matches scripture. Plus, thoughts on discipleship, building real relationships with people outside your comfort zone, and why people should be envious of how Christians live.

Send us Fan MailIn this concluding message of the "Side Quest" series, the speaker uses the world of video games as a lens to examine life's ultimate purpose. Drawing from John 17:3, Matthew 28, Philippians 3:8, and Ephesians 2:8–9, he challenges listeners to move beyond the busyness of everyday "side quests" — achievements, sports, entertainment, and success — and pursue the one thing that truly matters: a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. The message closes with a call to action: start the main quest, walk with Jesus daily, and make Him known to the people around you.

Send us Fan MailDo dogs go to heaven? It's one of the most personal questions people ask about faith — and in this episode of Faith Questions, we dig into what the Bible actually says. We explore the difference between humans and animals in scripture, what Isaiah 11 tells us about the millennial kingdom, and whether your specific pet will be waiting for you in eternity. We give our honest take, even if it's not the answer everyone wants to hear. Got a faith question of your own? Send it our way — we tackle a new one every week.

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of the HOTLCast, Cyle, Matt, Ryan, and Mark dive deep into the "Side Quest Life" series — exploring how the people around us (your real-life NPCs) are never just background characters. From Salvation Army bell ringers to card game tournaments, they unpack what it looks like to live non-transactionally, invest in people without expecting a return, and watch God multiply what you give. It's a warm, honest conversation about faith, community, and keeping Jesus as your main quest.

Send us Fan MailIn this third installment of the Side Quest Life series, Pastor Cyle uses the concept of non-playable characters (NPCs) from video games to challenge listeners to stop treating people like background noise. Drawing from Matthew 9:35–38, Proverbs 27:17, and Luke 19:10, the message reveals that the people we rush past are not interruptions — they are God's divine appointments and the very harvest Jesus calls us to. The application is simple but convicting: slow down, make room in your schedule for people, and move at the speed of compassion.

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of the HOTLCast, hosts Cyle, Ryan, Carver, and Mark celebrate some exciting church milestones — new leadership roles, a booming youth ministry, and a bold hair-dye dare — before diving deep into their series Side Quest Life. Drawing from gaming culture and Scripture, the crew unpacks how to tell the difference between life's distractions and what God is truly calling you to, and why intentionality is the key to staying on the path. If you've ever felt pulled in a dozen directions, this one's for you.

Send us Fan MailPastor Cyle uses the video game metaphor of a "quest line" to challenge believers to stop wandering through life's side quests — hobbies, distractions, and self-directed living — and intentionally return to following Jesus as the one true path. Drawing from Psalm 119:105, John 8:12, and John 14:6, he calls the church to renewed obedience through Scripture, prayer, and accountability. The message culminates in a call to step out in faith — like Indiana Jones stepping over the chasm — trusting that God's way, even when unseen, leads to life, joy, and hope.

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of the HOTLCast, Matt, Ryan, Cody, and Mark, unpack the concept of "Side Quest Life" — the tendency to get so distracted by life's detours that we lose sight of what truly matters. From Skyrim analogies to therapy culture and social media traps, this conversation is honest, funny, and deeply practical. If you've ever felt off-track, overwhelmed, or unsure of your purpose, this episode will help you recalibrate.

Send us Fan MailUsing the world of video games as his lens, Pastor Cyle challenges his congregation to recognize the difference between life's endless "side quests" — hobbies, sports, schedules, and responsibilities — and the one thing that truly matters: knowing Jesus and making Him known. Anchored in Luke 10 and the story of Mary and Martha, the message calls out the danger of being busy with good things while neglecting the best thing — time at the feet of Jesus. The practical takeaway is a personal inventory: what is taking your time, your attention, and your affection, and is it time to clear your map and return to the main quest?

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of the HOTLCast, Cyle, Matt, Ryan, and Mark dive into what it really means to be stuck — whether it's relationally, emotionally, financially, or spiritually — and what it takes to break free. Drawing from a real-life sandbar rescue in Florida, the guys share vulnerable personal stories about the seasons they've been stuck and how godly community made all the difference. If you're feeling like parts of your life just aren't working, this episode is for you.

Send us Fan MailDrawing from Matthew 7:24–27 and 2 Corinthians 6:2, Pastor Cyle challenges the congregation to stop delaying action on life's hidden problems. Using a vivid personal story of getting stranded on a sandbar in the Florida Keys as an approaching storm closed in, he illustrates that storms don't create problems — they expose them. The message calls listeners to build their lives on the foundation of Jesus Christ now, admit where they're stuck, and let God's people help them get unstuck before the storm arrives.

Send us Fan MailIn this Easter special edition of the HOTLCast, Cyle, Cody, Ryan, and Mark dive deep into why the empty tomb matters more than most Christians realize — and how living resurrection life looks radically different from a shame-and-guilt cycle. With warmth, humor, and real talk, the guys challenge listeners to stop going back to their old tombs and start walking in the new life Jesus made possible. If you've ever felt stuck in your past, this episode is for you.

Send us Fan MailIn this Easter message, Pastor Cyle declares that the resurrection of Jesus Christ is not merely a historical event but a present-day power available to every person. Anchored in Matthew 28 and Romans 8:11, the sermon reveals that the stone wasn't rolled away to let Jesus out — it was moved so we could see in. The central application calls every listener to stop revisiting the shame, guilt, and sin that Jesus has already conquered, and to boldly rise up into new life in him.

Send us Fan MailPastor Cody Morehead and the team at The Lodge sit down to talk about why student ministry is one of the most powerful investments a family can make. From summer camps to spontaneous gas station hangouts, they unpack how fun builds the foundation for lasting faith. If you have a teenager — or care about one — this episode is for you.

Send us Fan MailOn Palm Sunday, the crowds shouted "Hosanna" — a word meaning "save us" — as Jesus entered Jerusalem, yet within days most had disappeared when the cost became real. Drawing from John 12, Luke 19, Psalm 118, and Zechariah 9:9, this message calls us to move beyond emotional celebration and surface-level worship toward genuine surrender. The true meaning of Palm Sunday isn't louder praise — it's a life changed by the Jesus who came not just to perform miracles, but to save us from sin and into eternity.

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of the HOTL Cast, Cyle, Matt, Ryan, and Mark dive deep into their "False Idols" series with an honest, unfiltered conversation about the idol of self — how we subtly (and not so subtly) put ourselves at the center of our own worship. With raw personal stories and pastoral wisdom, the guys explore how trading self-exaltation for true humility is the only path to real contentment and joy. Whether you're a pastor wrestling with pride after a great sermon or someone who's been searching for peace in all the wrong places, this episode will hit home.

Send us Fan MailIn the final message of the False Idols series, Pastor Cyle confronts the most dangerous idol of all — the self. Drawing from Genesis 3, Luke 9, Romans 1, Jeremiah 17, Proverbs 3, and Galatians 2:20, he traces the root of self-worship from the Garden of Eden to modern American culture, showing how the human heart naturally elevates personal will, feelings, and pride above God. The message calls every listener to a daily act of surrender — to step off the throne of their own heart and crown Jesus instead, because real freedom and joy only begin when Christ truly reigns.

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of the HOTLCast, Cyle, Matt, Mark, and Ryan dive deep into a series on modern-day idols — but with a twist: the focus is on the spiritual traps that trip up even the most devoted believers. From the "Corinth Trap" of knowledge without love, to the danger of church-hopping and spiritual superiority, the crew gets real about the idols hiding in plain sight inside the church. It's honest, funny, and exactly the kind of conversation your small group should be having.

Send us Fan MailIdols may seem like something from ancient history—golden statues and carved images worshiped in temples. But the truth is, idolatry hasn’t disappeared. It has simply changed form.In this message, we explore how the human heart still creates idols today—often through things that look good, desirable, or even harmless. Success, reputation, relationships, comfort, politics, entertainment, and identity can quietly take the place that belongs to God alone.Scripture reminds us that whatever controls our hearts ultimately becomes our god. When blessings slowly become masters, they begin to shape our priorities, our identity, and even our worship.This message challenges us to honestly examine our lives, recognize the idols that compete for our devotion, and replace them with a deeper love for Christ—because only one throne exists in the human heart.

Send us Fan MailWhat if your greatest blessings have quietly become your biggest distractions? In this honest conversation, the hosts explore how everyday things—sports, hobbies, even church attendance metrics—can shift from blessings to idols without us realizing it. Through personal stories and practical wisdom, they offer a roadmap for recognizing when good things demand too much of our hearts, and how to keep Jesus at the center of our lives, families, and passions.

Send us Fan MailPastor Cyle challenges the congregation to examine what truly controls their hearts beyond the obvious statues and golden calves of ancient times. Through personal stories—including his struggle with Michigan football fandom—he reveals how modern idols hide in our priorities, screen time, relationships, and even ministry success. The message calls believers to replace competing loves with an undivided devotion to Christ, reminding us that "you will always reflect what you revere."

Send us Fan MailJoin hosts Cyle, Cody, and Ryan as they tackle the crucial difference between guilt and shame through hilarious personal stories and genuine pastoral wisdom. From lost snorkel masks to a legendary Krispy Kreme incident, they explore how confession, community, and faith help us move from paralyzing shame to healthy accountability. Whether you're struggling with past mistakes or just need a reminder that you're not alone, this conversation offers both laughter and practical steps toward healing.

Send us Fan MailDrawing from a humorous snorkeling mishap, Pastor Cyle unpacks the crucial difference between guilt and shame. While guilt says "I did a bad thing" and leads to restoration, shame says "I am a bad person" and keeps us trapped in the enemy's lies. Through Romans 3:23 and Romans 8:1, he reminds us that God doesn't label us by our failures—He calls us His children and offers complete restoration through Jesus Christ.

Send us Fan MailJoin Matt, Mark, and Ryan as they explore how our expectations can limit what God has in store for us. Through honest stories about careers, family planning, and daily struggles, the hosts reveal how surrendering our plans to God often leads to something far better than we imagined. This conversation offers practical wisdom on balancing intentionality with trust, complete with a challenge to incorporate quiet time into your daily routine.

Send us Fan MailIn this message from Heart O' The Lakes Church, we explore the tension between our personal plans and God's greater purpose for our lives. Drawing from Isaiah 55:8-9, Proverbs 3:5-6, and Philippians 3:13-14, this sermon challenges us to release our ideals and expectations, listen for God's voice in the silence, and trust that His path—though often harder—leads to something far greater than we could imagine for ourselves.

Send us Fan MailJoin the HOTLCast crew as they dive deep into why sharing our stories is so transformative. Through personal experiences and honest conversation, Ryan, Matt, Mark, and Cody, explore how vulnerability breaks down isolation, builds authentic community, and reveals God's work in our lives. Whether you're struggling to open up or wondering if your story matters, this episode will inspire you to share your journey with courage.

Send us Fan MailPastor Cyle teaches that healthy relationships require intentional rules and boundaries, not just passion. Drawing from Jesus' Sermon on the Mount and practical wisdom, he shares how "future us survives present us" through clear communication, quick repentance, faithful promises, prayer, and releasing bitterness. The message challenges listeners to apply biblical principles to all relationships—romantic, familial, and platonic—so they can love God by loving people well.

Send us Fan MailJoin Cyle, Ryan, Cody, and Mark as they navigate the messy, hilarious, and deeply practical world of relationship conflict resolution. What starts as a conversation about viral slap-fighting videos quickly transforms into honest insights about healthy communication, the importance of trusted mediators, and why rock-paper-scissors might actually be relationship genius. This episode offers real-world strategies for couples who want to fight fair, resolve conflicts with grace, and build marriages that last.Here is the link to the Run Nation Club Video Cyle was talking about if you're interested

Send us Fan MailEver feel like you're just guessing your way through relationships—hoping you say the right thing or avoid the wrong buttons? In this message, Pastor Kyle reveals why so many relationships struggle: we're relying on guesswork instead of guardrails.Drawing from his own marriage, Cyle shares how he and his wife Patty created 169 specific rules to navigate communication, conflict, and commitment. These aren't restrictive regulations—they're life-giving guidelines that protect love in both peaceful seasons and heated moments.You'll discover:Why love needs guardrails, not guesswork5 practical relationship rules you can use today (the "Oreo Method," "No Kitchen Sinking," and more)How to pause fights and create rules that prevent future conflictWhy what you don't define in peace, conflict will define for youWhether you're navigating friendships, family dynamics, or marriage, this teaching offers practical biblical tools to stop tearing each other down and start building each other up.Key Scriptures: Ephesians 4:29 | Colossians 4:6 | 1 Corinthians 13:5 | Proverbs 15:28

Send us Fan MailJoin Cyle, Carver, Matt, and Mark as they explore what it means to truly treat others the way you want to be treated. From navigating middle school friendships to honoring people in their final moments, this conversation dives into the heart of building authentic community. Discover practical ways to invest in relationships before it's too late and learn how one church transformed its culture through simple but powerful principles.