Sex in Marriage: How to Keep Intimacy Alive and Better Than Ever!

Today we flip the script in one of the most honest and inspiring conversations yet! I sit down with Tyler Todt— the most positive voice on Twitter/X, faith-driven family man, shredded dad, former pro poker player turned coach, and men's life coach — for a raw, back-and-forth interview. We start with me asking Tyler the tough questions about: Why so many people feel frustrated with modern dating and marriage The power of radical personal ownership (your spouse is often mirroring YOU) His dramatic life turnaround: from out-of-shape, low-energy bank manager who hated his life... to waking up at 5 AM, building an incredible marriage, semi-retiring in his 30s, and coaching hundreds of men How a single loving conversation from his wife sparked his "come to Jesus" moment and complete metamorphosis The simple daily habits (gratitude journaling, no more negativity or news, vision-building) that transformed his mindset, body, business, and family life Walking shirtless in Vegas, giant sombrero calls, and what "winning" really looks like as a busy dad Then we flip roles — Tyler interviews me about: Why a thriving sex life is often the key to fixing almost everything else in marriage The massive disconnect between how men and women experience connection and desire Hormones, duty sex, initiation vs. receptivity, creating space for your wife, and becoming sexually generous How one partner going first (with intentionality and love) can radically transform the relationship This episode is packed with practical wisdom for men and women who want stronger marriages, better attraction, more intimacy, and lives filled with purpose instead of excuses. If you're tired of the online gender wars, feeling stuck in mediocrity, or want to build a marriage that actually gets better with time, this one is for you. Key takeaways: Control what you can control and stop blaming the opposite sex Build yourself first — vision, discipline, faith, fitness, and ownership change everything Great marriages aren't 50/50 — they're two people constantly elevating each other Sex isn't just physical; it's often the glue (or the missing piece) in long-term relationships Book Recommendations Found in Today's Video: How to Win Friends and Influence People: https://a.co/d/0529otMr The Walls Speaks: https://a.co/d/0fZCLnLA X/Twitter: https://x.com/tyromper (highly recommended follow for daily positivity) YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@tylertodt Email: TylerTodt@Gmail (for coaching & men's retreats) Join Monica's Community Here: https://www.skool.com/modernmarriagewithmonica/about?ref=ef239ca470a34e648243770616f65c73 Benefits Include: 1. Early Access to Videos 2. Free Twice Monthly Group Coaching Calls 3. Ability to ask Monica Questions Directly 4. Podcast Notes 5. The support of the community ranging from novice to expert relationship experience. Contact Monica: Interested in Coaching? Book a call today! calendly.com/monicaalmaguer Have a Question? Send us an email to [email protected] Want to Fast Track Your Relationship Results? Check Out My Course https://www.smokinghotmarriage.com/6799b46c Socials: https://www.instagram.com/modernmarriagewithmonica https://www.facebook.com/MonicaAlmaguerPodcast https://x.com/MonicaMAlmaguer https://open.spotify.com/show/3U91DRFsdIsReiou3hMA26 https://linktr.ee/Monica.Almaguer