Sex, Shame, and Society’s Messages to Men(137)

The Connection Codes Team are talking about the topic of male sexuality and vulnerability. With insights from listener feedback and an open discussion, they take a look at the hidden messages men receive about sex and desire—messages that create shame and emotional distance. Dr. Glenn and Phyllis share personal experiences and clinical observations on how societal pressures force men to conceal their struggles, while Tera brings a fresh perspective on how these issues affect marriages. Together, they discuss how acknowledging and unpacking these messages can lead to healthier connections and break down emotional barriers. Links and Resources: Book a discovery call for Overwhelm Overhaul: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://calendly.com/tera-wages/30min⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ To download the Core Emotion Wheel: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://tinyurl.com/rnyne5jf⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ To enroll in Foundations use the code PODCAST for 20% off: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://tinyurl.com/rnyne5jf⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about becoming a Certified Connection Codes Coach: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.connectioncodes.co/certified-coach⁠ Chapters: 00:00:00 - Starting the Conversation on Male Sexuality 00:00:49 - Listener’s Challenge Sparks a Deep Dive 00:04:01 - Untold Stories and Hidden Experiences 00:05:27 - The Influence of Cultural Messages 00:12:34 - Unpacking Lust and Attraction 00:21:45 - Navigating Purity Culture’s Impact 00:31:54 - Biblical Takes on Lust: A Fresh Look 00:36:59 - Understanding the Greek Roots of Lust 00:38:06 - When Does Lust Become Sin? 00:39:08 - Attraction Stories That Shape Us 00:42:23 - What It Means to Be "Missing" in Marriage 00:45:05 - Surprising Insights from Pre-Marriage Talks 00:50:00 - Honest Conversations in Pre-Marriage Counseling 00:56:08 - How Honesty Reshapes Relationships 01:03:14 - Wrapping Up with Core Emotion Reflections