Shame & Attraction: Why Your Brain Falls for the Wrong People with Leah Mitchell

Why do I keep choosing the people, relationships, and dynamics that confirm my deepest insecurities? That question sits at the heart of this episode. I'm joined by neuroscience-based love coach Leah Mitchell to unpack why we're drawn to the "wrong" people on a chemical level.We get into why we stay stuck seeking validation as adults, the truth about reaching for the "narcissist" label, how cortisol and stress shape attraction, why we chase the chaos we grew up with, and why secure love can feel so threatening. None of it leaves you stuck. Leah shares her idea of "regardless energy" and a real first step toward choosing differently.If good love has ever felt boring, if you sabotage the healthy thing, or you're tired of ending up in the same place, this one is for you.In this episode:Why we get stuck seeking validationThe truth about the "narcissist" labelHow attraction works on a chemical levelWhy secure love can feel like a trapLearning to trust yourself and choose connection anywayConnect with Leah Mitchell:Facebook: facebook.com/LeahMitchellInstagram: @goddessofloveofficialGet Connected:Subscribe to my YouTube channelSign up for my email list: adversityrising.com/email-listListen to the podcast: open.spotify.com/show/AdversityRisingTake the Next Step:Download the FREE handout, "5 Things Shame Resilient People Do Every Day," and start making the daily shifts to break the shame cycle keeping you stuck: adversityrising.com/become-shame-resilientBook a free 25-minute discovery call to find the support that best fits your needs: calendly.com/adversityrising/discovery-callAre you a people pleaser, ruminator, or over-extender? Join the next round of Liberated Living and practice the radical 3 — Radical Acceptance, Radical Responsibility, and Radical Authorship: adversityrising.com/liberated-livingIf something here hit home, let me know what you're taking away, and share it with someone who needs to hear it. I'll see you back here next week.