should you listen to your heart or your mind?

to answer the "never-ending" dilemma of who you should listen to out of heart and mind i for some reason go deep into neuroscience, then come back to philosophy and circle back on psychology. also i teach you some new vocabulary that i came up with myself (or so i like to believe). all of it ends on the division between wants, needs and cravings and how to parent your inner child preferably without trauma. enjoy!