Parenting: Perfectly Imperfect

Ken Dolan-Delvecchio, licensed family therapist, author, speaker and corporate health and wellness leader, wrote the book "Simple Habits of Exceptional (But Not Perfect) Parents." In this conversation we talked power dynamics, about how parenting changes as our children grow up and become parents themselves, how to maintain close family bonds once they move away. We learned about the importance of role modeling from the very beginning and continuing throughout our children's lives. We discussed how to impart critical thinking skills and how to speak to children about social injustices. Parenting isn't a one-size-fits-all gig, especially when we’re talking about being an exceptional but not perfect parent. In this chat, we dive into the nitty-gritty of what it really means to be an exceptional parent—without the pressure of perfection. Ken Dolan Del Vecchio, a seasoned family therapist, sheds light on the difference between ‘power over’ and ‘power with’ in parenting. It’s all about how we guide our kids through life with a supportive hand rather than a heavy hand. Think of it like this: instead of just barking orders, we’re here to help them navigate their own paths, learning and growing as they go. Ken shares anecdotes that make these concepts relatable, like how to prepare your kids for new experiences—gentle introductions rather than shock therapy at the dentist, you know? We also touch on the importance of role modeling; as parents, we’re always on display, and our kids are taking notes. It’s a wild ride of laughs, reflections, and some serious insights into how we can be there for our kids as they grow into their own individuals. Trust me, you don’t want to miss this one!