Single? Pleasure Beyond Partnership & Owning Your Eros

Mhmmm. In this diverse and potent episode, I talk about being a (sexless) well-fucked woman no matter what your relationship status or life phase. I often ask couples & singles what makes sex "great" for them? How do they feel when they're having great sex & how this affects their everyday life? Their answers may surprise you as all of these qualities people suggest are not dependant on the physical, frictional experience of sex itself.All of this data has contributed to the making of this episode where I've distilled down the key components to feeling alive, lit-up & turned-on (no matter where your at) while still honoring your values & needs at the time. I've broken this episode down into three different sections:- How to be W-F'd When you're in an intentional celibacy space (perhaps after a breakup or a significant life-changing event).- How to be W-F'd When you're in your sexual winter (in or outside of a relationship).- How to be W-F'd While You're dating.All categories are unique and have specific guidance including;-My personal definition of modern celibacy and what to do when you want to keep your energy to yourself.- How to keep your sexual energy ON and OPEN while remaining boundaried.- Flirting with life & how to keep your sensual flame alight.- What to do when you're in a sexual winter (low-no sex drive)- How to create more a sex-positive and arousal conducive environment in all aspects of your life.- How to identify what is creating contraction in your day-to-day to bring more balance, harmony & sensual aliveness.- What to do when you're not sure what turns you on anymore.- Holistic feminine arousal and looking at your entire environment to see if it is conducive to safety, expansion & sensuality or discomfort, contraction and shut down.- How to be ooze with sexual sovereignty while dating.- Self-pleasure artistry.- Orgasmic energy = magnetic energy- How to take the neediness energy out of dating & turns it into grounded, secure "I like you but I'm ok either way" energy.Tune in, drop-in, & enjoy!Thanks my loves.Work with Laura Ellen:Book a connection call: https://calendly.com/lauraellen/discoverySELF SOURCED: www.laura-ellen.com/self-sourcedSensual Sex: www.laura-ellen.com/ss-mailing-listLingam Loving: www.laura-ellen.com/lingam-lovingYUM RETREAT:Wānaka 17th-21st Sept.www.laura-ellen.com/yumDiscover DIY Online Courses:Website: www.laura-ellen.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/_laura_ellenDonate to The Sexual Wellness Podcast:https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=KJLSUE4X7CCF8If you’re loving the show and are excited to get this content in the ears of those who need it most, you can offer a one-off or monthly donation. Never necessary, always appreciated. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit bylauraellen.substack.com/subscribe