Sit With the Silence

September: On Friendship and ConnectionSeptember 6Companionship, where it is most profound and in its most natural state, is in the silence. The quiet moments—sitting together in a car on a long drive, sitting at the table over a meal or cup of coffee, walking a path in the woods or walking the block—without ever the need to speak or fill the air for fear of silence.In its most natural state, friendship is presence. It knows that words and touch and busying ourselves with activities, while all nice, are not necessary. Do not feel the need or pressure to talk and push out the quiet. Be present with another. Let the silence out. Just be, and feel it warm you.Reflection title: Sit With the SilenceCreative inspiration: Stephen Crane, "The Open Boat"Reflection question: Who can I sit with in silence, and when did we last? Do I feel uncomfortable in silence with another? If so, why might that be?