Soft Eyes, Strong Spine: The Secret to Balancing Love and Boundaries: Eric Brockman

How do you balance being the "fun" weekend dad with being the parent who instills lasting values?In this episode of the Dad to Dads Podcast, Robert sits down with Eric Brockman, author of Soft Eyes, Strong Spine. Eric shares his "Eric 2.0" journey—moving from a rigid, hyper-vigilant parenting style to one defined by "presence without urgency."Whether you are navigating shared custody, dealing with the "texting trap," or struggling with the constant "self-auditing" that comes with divorced parenting, this episode offers a new operating system for fatherhood.In this interview, we discuss:The Soft Eyes, Strong Spine Framework: How to be a safe space for your kids while maintaining firm boundaries.The "Texting Trap": Why dads leak energy through digital communication and how to stop overthinking the "send" button.Presence vs. Agenda: Learning to let your kids "just breathe" when they arrive at your home.The Side-by-Side Connection: Why men and boys connect differently and how to use that to your advantage.Overcoming the "Disneyland Dad" Phase: Moving past the fear of losing your relationship with your children after divorce.About Eric Brockman: Eric is a father of four and the author of Soft Eyes, Strong Spine. After 35 years in aerospace sales and navigating two divorces, he now helps men deconstruct the "fakery zone" and build more authentic, emotionally available relationships with their children.Links & Resources:Website: https://www.softeyesstrongspine.com/Instagram: @softeyesstrongspineThe Dad to Dads Podcast is focused on helping fathers become more present, intentional, and impactful in their children’s lives.Don’t forget to LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and feel free to leave us a COMMENT#DivorcedDads #CoParenting #Fatherhood #ParentingAdvice #DadLife    #PositiveParenting  #DivorcedDad  #SingleDad  #ParentingTips #ModernDad  #DadPodcast #ParentingPodcast #divorceSend us Fan Mail