Dad to Dads Podcast

In this deeply emotional and raw episode of the Dad to Dads podcast, Robert sits down with Matt and Monica Spellicy for a conversation that explores the unimaginable journey of losing two children in a tragic accident.When Matt and Monica’s lives were shattered in July 2025 by a devastating tractor-trailer collision that claimed the lives of Matt’s oldest son, Tyler, and his daughter, Kylie, they were forced to navigate a depth of grief that no parent should ever have to face. Yet, in the wake of this heartbreak, they have chosen to stand firm in their faith and purpose.In this episode, we discuss:Surviving the Unthinkable: How Matt and Monica have navigated the immediate aftermath of losing Tyler and Kylie, and the role their faith has played in keeping them upright.The Power of Memory: Matt shares tender, authentic stories about Tyler’s growth and Kylie’s spirit, explaining why he chooses to lean into the pain rather than hide from it.Parenting After Tragedy: A profound look at how they continue to parent their youngest son, Bradley, and why they are committed to showing him and others that you can find happiness again after loss.The Choice to Be Better: Why Matt believes that even in the darkest moments, we have a choice: to be broken by our adversity or to use it to become stronger for ourselves and our families.This conversation is not just about grief; it is a masterclass in courage, intentional parenting, and the healing power of vulnerability. If you have experienced a profound loss, or if you simply need a reminder to cherish the time you have with your children, this episode is for you.Connect with Matt & Monica:Website: thematamonicapodcast.comFind them on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and YouTube.Connect with Dad to Dads:https://www.instagram.com/dadtodads/Don’t forget to LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and feel free to leave us a COMMENT#GriefAndHealing #ParentingThroughAdversity #FaithInHardTimes #Resilience #InspiringStories #OvercomingLoss #MentalHealthAwareness #FamilyFirst #MovingForward #parenting #faith #loss #fatherhood #griefSend us Fan Mail

What happens when the life you planned suddenly vanishes?In this episode of the Dad to Dads Podcast, Robert sits down with Stephen Cooper - Navy veteran, author of Beneath the Surface, and a father who has walked through the highest stakes imaginable. Stephen shares the raw reality of becoming a single, widowed father to two young children almost overnight.We dive deep into the "survival circle" of early grief, the internal battle between military pride and the necessity of asking for help, and the unique challenges of being a widowed black father in America today. Stephen also opens up about the intentionality required to blend families, the importance of men’s fellowship, and why "showing up" is the most important job a father has.In this episode, you’ll learn:How the discipline of the military can (and can’t) prepare you for a life tragedy.The danger of the "Lone Wolf" mentality and why men must learn to swallow their pride.Strategies for blending families with intentionality and protecting your children’s emotional boundaries.How to honor a late spouse’s legacy while moving forward with a new partner.The truth about the rising statistics of active Black fathers and dismantling societal stereotypes.Grab Stephen’s book, Beneath the Surface, on Amazon or Barnes & Noble.Instagram: @stephendcooper04The Dad to Dads Podcast is focused on helping fathers become more present, intentional, and impactful in their children’s lives.Don’t forget to LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and feel free to leave us a COMMENT#Fatherhood #DadToDads #GriefJourney #SingleDad #NavyVeteran #BlackFatherhood #MenMentalHealth #BlendedFamily #ParentingAdvice #widow #Resilience #Widower #DadLife #MorehouseSend us Fan Mail

How do you balance being the "fun" weekend dad with being the parent who instills lasting values?In this episode of the Dad to Dads Podcast, Robert sits down with Eric Brockman, author of Soft Eyes, Strong Spine. Eric shares his "Eric 2.0" journey—moving from a rigid, hyper-vigilant parenting style to one defined by "presence without urgency."Whether you are navigating shared custody, dealing with the "texting trap," or struggling with the constant "self-auditing" that comes with divorced parenting, this episode offers a new operating system for fatherhood.In this interview, we discuss:The Soft Eyes, Strong Spine Framework: How to be a safe space for your kids while maintaining firm boundaries.The "Texting Trap": Why dads leak energy through digital communication and how to stop overthinking the "send" button.Presence vs. Agenda: Learning to let your kids "just breathe" when they arrive at your home.The Side-by-Side Connection: Why men and boys connect differently and how to use that to your advantage.Overcoming the "Disneyland Dad" Phase: Moving past the fear of losing your relationship with your children after divorce.About Eric Brockman: Eric is a father of four and the author of Soft Eyes, Strong Spine. After 35 years in aerospace sales and navigating two divorces, he now helps men deconstruct the "fakery zone" and build more authentic, emotionally available relationships with their children.Links & Resources:Website: https://www.softeyesstrongspine.com/Instagram: @softeyesstrongspineThe Dad to Dads Podcast is focused on helping fathers become more present, intentional, and impactful in their children’s lives.Don’t forget to LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and feel free to leave us a COMMENT#DivorcedDads #CoParenting #Fatherhood #ParentingAdvice #DadLife    #PositiveParenting  #DivorcedDad  #SingleDad  #ParentingTips #ModernDad  #DadPodcast #ParentingPodcast #divorceSend us Fan Mail

If you’re a divorced parent dealing with constant co-parenting conflict, this episode could change everything.In this episode of the Dad to Dads Podcast, Sol Kennedy, founder of the Best Interest app, talks about how AI is being used to reduce — and in some cases eliminate — co-parenting conflict.We dive into:How AI filters toxic messages from your exWhy co-parenting communication triggers stress and anxietyThe difference between Best Interest and apps like OurFamilyWizardHow to respond without reacting (even in high-conflict situations)Why this can dramatically improve your mental health AND your relationship with your kidsIf you’ve ever felt triggered by a message from your co-parent, struggled to control your responses, or just want a healthier way to communicate — this conversation is for you.💡 The goal isn’t just less conflict… it’s protecting your peace and showing up better for your kids.👇 Learn more about the Best Interest app:Website: https://bestinterestapp.comAvailable on iOS & AndroidInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/bestinterest.app/—🎙 About the Podcast:The Dad to Dads Podcast is focused on helping fathers become more present, intentional, and impactful in their children’s lives.—👍 Don’t forget to LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and COMMENT with your thoughts or experiences with co-parenting.#coparenting #divorcedads #parentingtips #mentalhealth #ai #relationships #fatherhood #divorce #singleparent #singlefather #singledadSend us Fan Mail

"Love your kid more than you hate your ex."In this comprehensive, deep-dive interview, Robert sits down with 30-year family law veteran and divorce coach Erin Schaden to pull back the curtain on the "wasteland" of family court. This isn't just a conversation about law—it's a survival guide for parents dealing with high-conflict personalities, narcissistic exes, and a legal system that often feels irretrievably broken.What we cover in this full session:The High-Conflict Playground: Why the courtroom is a "magnet" for narcissists and how they use litigation to stay connected to you through chaos.The 80/20 Attorney Rule: Why 20% of lawyers thrive on conflict, and how high-conflict people "find their own" in the legal pool.The Guardian Ad Litem (GAL) Crisis: The danger of under-trained "neutrals" and the "Great Delay" that keeps families in limbo.The "Kitten & Blanket" Analogy: A powerful look at how childhood trauma creates adults who are addicted to conflict.Radical Solutions: Erin’s proposal for a pilot program to bypass traditional evidence rules and give judges the power to be "Deciders."The "Dads in the Middle" Debate: A raw discussion on judicial bias,  and why men often suffer in silence during divorce.The Success Roadmap: Erin’s "Awareness, Acceptance, Action" framework for finding stillness before filing.Connect with Erin Schaden:Website: ErinSchaden.comInstagram: @DivorceCoachErinFree Resource: Message "GUIDE" to Erin on social media for the Divorce Survival Guide.#divorce #highconflictdivorce #narcissisticabuse #familycourt #childcustody #divorcinganarcissist #coparenting #custodybattle #familylaw #divorceadvice #singleparent #parentingafterdivorce #toxicrelationships #DivorceStrategy #fatherhoodSend us Fan Mail

In this episode of the Dad to Dads Podcast, country music hit songwriter and artist Drew Parker opens up about fatherhood, faith, and the life-changing moment that led him to transition into Christian music after years of success in the country music industry.Drew Parker has written chart-topping hits for artists like Luke Combs, Blake Shelton, Jake Owen, and Zac Brown—including the Grammy-nominated song “Doing This” and the 5x Platinum hit “Forever After All.” He’s toured stadiums across the country and performed at the legendary Grand Ole Opry.But at the height of his career—touring with Luke Combs and playing sold-out stadiums—Drew felt something wasn’t right.After praying for direction, his non-believing manager called him days later with a dream that would ultimately change the course of his life and music career forever.In this powerful conversation, Drew shares:The moment he knew he was called to something moreHis transition from country music to Christian musicHow success impacted his identityWhat it means to be a “Girl Dad”The struggles of balancing work and familyWhy obedience changed everythingThe story behind his new song “Blame Jesus”This is a must-watch episode for dads navigating purpose, faith, career pressure, and what it really means to lead your family well.🎧 Subscribe for more conversations on fatherhood, faith, and personal growth.Drew Parker https://www.drewparkermusic.com/Drew Parker on Instagram @drewparkerplaysSend us Fan Mail

Divorce doesn’t end parenting — it changes it.In this episode of the Dad to Dads Podcast, family lawyer and author Gabriella Pomare shares powerful insights on collaborative co-parenting, high conflict divorce, healthy communication, and protecting your children after separation.If you’re struggling with:Co-parenting with a difficult exHigh conflict custody situationsParallel parenting vs collaborative parentingCommunication breakdown after divorceSetting boundaries with your exBlended family dynamicsHelping kids cope with divorce…this episode is for you.Gabriella explains the 4 pillars of effective co-parent communication:ListenPauseReflectRespondShe also shares:What most divorced parents get wrongHow kids internalize conflict (even when you think they don’t)What to do when the other parent won’t cooperateHow to model maturity for your childrenWhy some adult children cut off their parents later in lifeHow to navigate holidays and blended family stressThis conversation is practical, honest, and deeply important for any parent navigating separation or divorce.Remember: It’s not about winning. It’s about your children.🎙 Guest: Gabriella Pomare 📘 Author of The Collaborative Co-Parent 🌎 Website: https://www.thecollaborativeco-parent.com 📱 Instagram: @thegabriellapomareSubscribe for more conversations about fatherhood, divorce, parenting, and becoming the dad your kids need.Send us Fan Mail

What if one week away could transform your relationship with your child—and your relationship with God?In this episode of the Dad to Dads Podcast, host Robert sits down with Rob Hinkle, Guest Engagement & Generosity Advisor at JH Ranch, to unpack what makes this legendary Christian guest ranch one of the most life-changing experiences for fathers, families, and men.From its humble beginnings in Northern California to its global impact, Rob shares the powerful story behind JH Ranch, a faith-based guest ranch focused on restoring hearts, strengthening families, and creating generational transformation. This conversation dives deep into father-child relationships, biblical leadership, men’s spiritual growth, and why intentional, distraction-free environments matter more than ever.You’ll hear about:The mission and history of JH RanchWhy they say “We’re not a camp—we’re a guest ranch”Father-son and father-daughter experiences that change livesMen’s retreats focused on healing, purpose, and masculinityFaith, vulnerability, and community among menTeen anxiety, technology, and why unplugging mattersHow every activity—from zip lines to wilderness solos—has purposeGlobal impact through JH Outback and leadership programs worldwideWhether you’re a dad, husband, or man searching for deeper purpose, this episode will challenge and inspire you to invest intentionally in your faith, your family, and the legacy you’re building.🔗 Learn more about JH Ranch: jhranch.comDad to Dads Podcast on IG www.instagram.com/dadtodads🎧 Subscribe for more conversations on fatherhood, faith, leadership, and personal growth.Send us Fan Mail

What happens when the one thing you’ve built your entire life around—your identity as an athlete—disappears overnight?The Summary: In this episode, Robert Poirier sits down with TJ Void: author, TEDx speaker, and basketball coach. TJ shares his raw and honest journey from being a standout player in Texas to the heartbreaking moment he walked away from Division 1 basketball, leading to a period of depression and a complete loss of self.TJ opens up about the "superpower" of his competitive nature, the "Rudy" comment that broke him, and the terrifying night that changed his life forever. Whether you are a parent, an athlete, or someone currently navigating a massive life transition, TJ’s insights on "humanizing yourself" and finding value outside of your achievements are essential listening.How to Find TJ Voidhttps://tjvoid.net/on IG https://www.instagram.com/tjvoid/Dad to Dads Podcast on IG www.instagram.com/dadtodadsSend us Fan Mail

Why do so many men struggle in marriage, faith and leadership - despite doing everything right?In this raw conversation, Kyle Carnohan breaks down ego, masculinity, marriage and what it truly means to lead as a man.In this powerful episode of the Dad to Dad Podcast, Robert sits down with Kyle Carnohan, founder of Superhuman Fathers, to explore the hidden battles men face in marriage, fatherhood, faith, and identity.Kyle speaks openly about ego, submission, leadership in marriage, sexless relationships, spiritual awakening, and why so many men feel lost- even when they’re successful. This conversation goes deep into what it really means to be a man of faith, how ego sabotages relationships, and why true leadership starts with humility.Topics covered include:Why ego is the biggest threat to men and marriagesThe real reason many marriages become sexlessWhat “dying to self” actually looks like in daily lifeFaith, masculinity, and hearing God’s voiceWhy men confuse vulnerability with weaknessLeadership, submission, and restoring connection with your wifeFatherhood, discipline, and preparing children for lifeSend us Fan Mail

Many parents love each other deeply - yet quietly struggle with intimacy after kids, stress, and years of responsibility take over.In this powerful episode of the Dad to Dads Podcast, intimacy coach Dan Purcell shares how sexual connection, communication, and emotional safety directly impact marriage, parenting, and overall family health.Dan opens up about his own journey from a conservative upbringing where sex wasn’t discussed, to helping couples rebuild intimacy without shame, pressure, or obligation. This conversation goes far beyond the bedroom — touching on trust, communication, stress, parenting, and what it really takes to maintain a strong marriage in midlife.If you’re a parent feeling disconnected, exhausted, or unsure how to talk about intimacy in your marriage, this episode offers practical insights, relatable stories, and a healthier framework for rebuilding connection.In this episode, we discuss:Why intimacy problems are extremely common among parentsHow obligation and “duty-based” sex damages connectionThe role of communication and emotional safety in marriageHow stress, kids, work, and aging affect intimacyWhy “good enough” intimacy is often the goal for busy parentsPractical ways couples can reconnect without pressure or shameThis episode is educational, honest, and designed for parents who want stronger marriages — not perfection.👇 Let us know in the comments: What has been the biggest challenge to intimacy in your marriage since becoming parents?🔔 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share this episode with another parent who may need to hear it.RESOURCES MENTIONEDDan Purcell’s App: Intimately UsFree Resources for Parents: https://getyourmarriageon.com/dad2dadsPodcast: Get Your Marriage OnSend us Fan Mail

In this episode, Jeannie Elbing - The Gen Z Anxiety Therapist - discusses one of the biggest concerns parents face today: Why are teens so anxious?Jeannie works with teens and young adults and shares what she sees every day in her practice:Why anxiety is rising faster than everThe impact of social media, comparison culture, and 24/7 visibilityHow sports pressure and academic expectations fuel stressWhy self-esteem struggles are nearly universal todayHow parental modeling (good or bad) shapes a child’s emotional worldWhen anxiety is “normal” vs. when it’s a clinical concernWarning signs parents should never ignoreWhat to do - and NOT do - when your teen has a bad game, bad test, or bad dayHow to actually validate your child instead of accidentally dismissing themHow to know when it’s time to seek professional helpWhat to look for in a therapist for your teenThis conversation is packed with practical tools for parents who want to better understand and support their Gen Z kids.If you’re a parent of a teen or preteen, this episode is a must-watch.How to find Jeannie ElbingIG https://www.instagram.com/genzanxietytherapist/Dad to Dads Podcast on IG https://www.instagram.com/dadtodadsSend us Fan Mail

In this episode, Robert and Chelle Theobald dive deep into one of the hardest questions parents face in relationships: Can you really move forward after betrayal?They unpack why trust takes so long to rebuild, what’s really happening when a partner keeps bringing up old pain, and how couples can stop repeating the same painful patterns.From trauma responses and nervous system repair to learning how to rebuild safety, this conversation gives dads (and all parents) a grounded, compassionate look at what healing actually looks like — not the movie version.If you’ve ever wondered why forgiveness doesn’t seem to “fix” things, or how to start rebuilding real trust after it’s been broken, this one’s for you.How to find Chelle TheobaldIG https://www.instagram.com/completecounselor/ https://www.thecompletecounselor.com/  Dad to Dads Podcast on IG https://www.instagram.com/dadtodadsSend us Fan Mail

In this episode, Robert speaks with Dustin Hogan, a specialist in men's mental health. They discuss the common struggles men face, including the search for purpose, the impact of social media, and the importance of vulnerability. Dustin shares insights on how childhood trauma affects adult relationships and emphasizes the need for men to connect and support each other. The conversation highlights the significance of therapy and actionable strategies for improving mental health, encouraging men to reach out for help and build meaningful connections.TakeawaysMen often struggle with finding their purpose and direction.Vulnerability is a crucial aspect of mental health for men.Social media can exacerbate feelings of inadequacy and anxiety.Childhood trauma can have lasting effects on mental health and relationships.Building connections with other men is essential for emotional support.Therapy should include actionable strategies for improvement.Men are often fixers, which can hinder their willingness to seek help.The importance of emotional awareness and communication skills is paramount.Younger generations are more proactive in seeking mental health support.It's vital to find the right fit in therapy for effective support.How to find Dustin HoganIG https://www.instagram.com/iamdustinhogan/https://therapyfordudes.com/Dustin's Ted Talk https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4nWcEtUV4doDad to Dads Podcast on IG https://www.instagram.com/dadtodadsSend us Fan Mail

In this episode Jeremy Stalnecker, a former Marine and CEO of the Mighty Oaks Foundation, discusses the importance of fatherhood, the challenges faced by veterans transitioning to civilian life, and the role of faith in parenting. Jeremy shares his experiences in the military, the mission of the Mighty Oaks Foundation in supporting veterans, and the significance of equipping his children with a strong spiritual self. The conversation emphasizes the need for strong male role models, the impact of fathers in society and the importance of having a relationship with God.TakeawaysUnderstanding fatherhood can have a generational impact.The Mighty Oaks Foundation serves veterans and first responders.Many veterans struggle with trauma and transition issues.Talking about struggles is a powerful step towards healing.Faith plays a crucial role in Jeremy's life and parenting.It's important to equip children with a strong faith in God to overcome the daily challenges of life.Dads should prioritize their relationship with God and family.Finding mentors can help young dads navigate parenting.Being a father means serving and equipping your children. How to find Jeremy StalneckerIG https://www.instagram.com/jeremystalnecker/March or Die Podcast https://www.instagram.com/marchordie/Dad to Dads Podcast on IG https://www.instagram.com/dadtodadsSend us Fan Mail

Dr. Peter Salerno is back and discusses the complexities of Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), emphasizing its hereditary nature and the role of trauma. He explores the manipulative tactics used by individuals with NPD, the challenges in identifying and treating personality disorders, and the impact of these disorders on relationships and the legal system. Dr. Salerno also highlights the importance of understanding the nuances of emotional abuse and the potential for change in individuals with NPD when provided with the right therapeutic interventions.TakeawaysNarcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) is hereditary, not solely caused by trauma.Trauma is neither necessary nor sufficient for the diagnosis of NPD.Narcissism operates on a continuum of severity, with varying degrees of traits.Manipulation and gaslighting are common tactics used by individuals with NPD.The legal system often fails to recognize the impact of personality disorders in divorce & custody cases.Children can exhibit traits of narcissism as early as age two.A supportive environment can mitigate the severity of narcissistic traits in children.There is hope for change in individuals with NPD through targeted therapeutic interventions.How to find Dr. Peter Salerno and his bookshttps://www.drpetersalerno.com/IG https://www.instagram.com/drpetersalerno/Dad to Dads Podcast on IG www.instagram.com/dadtodadsSend us Fan Mail

Larry Hagner shares his profound insights on fatherhood, drawing from his personal experiences and the challenges he faced growing up without a traditional father figure. He emphasizes the critical role fathers play in shaping their children's lives and the generational impact of fatherhood. Larry discusses his journey from a troubled childhood to becoming a dedicated father of four, highlighting the importance of intentional parenting and continuous learning. He introduces his new book, 'The Pursuit of Legendary Fatherhood,' which aims to guide fathers in navigating the complexities of parenting and building strong family connections. The conversation also touches on the significance of community and support for fathers, encouraging them to seek knowledge and resources to improve their parenting skills.TakeawaysFatherhood is a generational responsibility.The absence of a father can lead to significant societal issues.Intentional parenting can change the trajectory of families.Experiencing abandonment shaped Larry's approach to fatherhood.Learning and growth are essential in parenting.The drift refers to the complacency many fathers feel in their roles.Community support is vital for fathers to thrive.Every father should actively seek knowledge to improve their parenting. How to find Larry Hagnerwww.thedadedge.com/IG www.instagram.com/thedadedge/Dad to Dads Podcast on IG www.instagram.com/dadtodadsSend us Fan Mail

Terry Tucker shares his remarkable journey from being a Division 1 basketball player to a SWAT team hostage negotiator, and ultimately a cancer survivor. He discusses the importance of mindset, resilience, and the lessons learned through adversity. Terry emphasizes the significance of community, relationships, and the principles of sustainable excellence that guide his life. His insights on parenting and personal growth provide valuable takeaways for listeners.TakeawaysTerry Tucker's journey includes being a former D1 basketball player and a cancer survivor.He emphasizes the importance of mindset in overcoming challenges.Hostage negotiation is a team sport that relies on communication and understanding.Cancer has taught Terry valuable lessons about resilience and personal growth.The four truths for resilience are: control your mind, embrace pain, leave a legacy, and never quit.Building a supportive community is crucial for personal success.Terry's book, 'Sustainable Excellence,' outlines principles for leading an extraordinary life.Parents should teach their children the value of failure and learning from mistakes.It's important to challenge kids' beliefs and encourage critical thinking.Terry believes that adversity can lead to personal growth and a deeper understanding of oneself.How to find Terry Tuckerwww.motivationalcheck.comIG www.instagram.com/sustainableexcellenceauthorDad to Dads Podcast on IG www.instagram.com/dadtodadsSend us Fan Mail

Pamela Henry, author of 'Soul Custody: Sparing Children from Divorce,'  discusses the emotional and psychological impacts of divorce on both parents and children, the regrets many individuals face post-divorce, and the importance of understanding the deeper issues that lead to marital breakdowns. Pamela shares her personal journey, insights from her book, and strategies for couples contemplating divorce, emphasizing the need for empathy and the potential for healing through faith and self-reflection.Takeaways30% of people regret divorcing, indicating a need for deeper reflection before making such a decision.The concept of 'Soul Custody' emphasizes the importance of taking care of one's own emotional and spiritual well-being during and after divorce.Divorce can often stem from escapist tendencies, where individuals seek to avoid unresolved issues from their past.Common regrets after divorce often revolve around financial stress and loneliness rather than the impact on children.The emotional scars from divorce can have lasting effects on children, leading to feelings of sadness and abandonment.Focusing on the well-being of children can help couples navigate their own issues and potentially strengthen their marriage.Forgiveness plays a crucial role in healing after divorce, both for oneself and for others involved.Time is a critical factor in making decisions about divorce; giving oneself time can lead to better outcomes.Understanding the child's perspective in a divorce can foster empathy and better decision-making for parents.Seeking help and guidance, whether through therapy or spiritual support, can aid in healing and personal growth. How to find Pamela [email protected] Dad to Dads Podcast on IG www.instagram.com/dadtodadsSend us Fan Mail

James Walton shares his journey into prepping, highlighting the importance of self-reliance, community, and the emotional aspects of being prepared. He distinguishes between preppers and survivalists, discusses the integration of homesteading into prepping, and emphasizes the significance of teaching children survival skills. The discussion also touches on the impact of the pandemic on preparedness and the lifestyle changes that come with embracing a prepping mindset. James encourages listeners to view prepping as a way to enhance their quality of life rather than just a response to fear.Takeaways Prepping is a pathway to self-reliance and independence.The difference between preppers and survivalists lies in their approach and mindset.Homesteading is intertwined with prepping, focusing on sustainable living.Self-sufficiency provides peace of mind and security for families.Prepping can be a lifestyle that enhances quality of life.Teaching children survival skills fosters confidence and resilience.The emotional journey of prepping includes overcoming fears and anxieties.Building a community of like-minded individuals is crucial for support.Education and continuous learning are vital in the prepping journey.Prepping is not just about preparing for disasters, but also about enjoying life.How to find James Waltonhttps://prepper-broadcasting-network.podcastpage.io/Dad to Dads Podcast on IG www.instagram.com/dadtodadsSend us Fan Mail

In this heartfelt conversation, Stephen Panus, author of Walk On, shares his profound journey of grief following the tragic loss of his son, Jake. He discusses the impact of this loss on his family, particularly on his younger son, Liam, and how they have navigated their grief together. Stephen emphasizes the importance of community support, vulnerability, and the healing process, while also honoring Jake's legacy through the Walk-On Scholarship. The conversation touches on themes of resilience, spirituality, and the lessons learned from loss, ultimately inspiring listeners to cherish the little moments in life and support one another through difficult times.TakeawaysStephen Panus shares his journey of loss and healing.The importance of community support during grief.Grief is a universal experience that can take many forms.Jake Panus was a vibrant personality who left a lasting impact.The Walk-On Scholarship honors Jake's legacy and helps others.Vulnerability is a strength in the grieving process.It's essential to savor the little moments in life.Public speaking has become a way for Stephen to honor Jake.Faith and spirituality play a role in coping with loss.The journey of grief is ongoing and requires patience.How to find Stephen Panuswww.StephenPanus.comhttps://youtu.be/LN1rxJCjWGM?si=uGKX8hDrC1QFIDWnDad to Dads Podcast on IG www.instagram.com/dadtodadsSend us Fan Mail

In this episode Lucas Krump, co-founder of Evryman, discusses the challenges men face today, including loneliness, a lack of belonging, and the search for purpose. Lucas shares insights from his journey in founding Evryman, a movement aimed at empowering men to live healthier, more connected lives through shared experiences and emotional vulnerability. They explore the importance of emotional safety, the transformative power of retreats, and how men can navigate their fears and develop deeper connections with themselves and others.TakeawaysMen often struggle with loneliness and a lack of connection.The Evryman movement was founded to address men's emotional needs.Vulnerability is essential for emotional safety in relationships.Many men feel stuck in repetitive life patterns.Retreats provide peak experiences for self-discovery.Emotional labor is necessary for personal growth.Men need to practice articulating their emotions.Fear can be a catalyst for growth and focus.Connection with others is vital for mental health.The average of the top five people you spend time with influences your life. How to find Evrymanwww.evryman.comInstagram  https://www.instagram.com/evryman/Dad to Dads Podcast on IG www.instagram.com/dadtodadsSend us Fan Mail

Men's mental health expert, Dr. Daniel David, discusses mother enmeshment and its negative impact on young men's mental health and development. He emphasizes the importance of healthy mother-son relationships, the need for independence, and the role of fathers in shaping male identity. Dr. David also introduces his coaching program aimed at helping mothers understand their sons' developmental stages and how to facilitate their growth into confident young men.TakeawaysMother enmeshment can hinder a son's independence.Healthy mother-son relationships are crucial for development.Mothers often struggle with letting go of their sons.Boys need to take risks to build resilience.Fathers play a vital role in male development.Mothers should avoid over-communicating with their sons.Setting boundaries is essential for healthy relationships.Moms need to affirm their sons' fathers.Coaching can help mothers navigate their sons' growth.Understanding developmental stages can improve mother-son dynamics.How to find Dr. David Daniel www.atlantamenscounselingtherapy.comor email Dr. David at [email protected] to Dads Podcast on IG www.instagram.com/dadtodadsSend us Fan Mail

Damarius Bilbo shares his inspiring journey from professional athlete to successful sports agent, offering a behind-the-scenes look at the industry and the challenges that come with it. He opens up about the importance of faith, family, and fatherhood, and how he strives to maintain balance between his demanding career and personal life. Reflecting on his upbringing, Bilbo discusses the values he instills in his children and the lessons he's learned along the way. He also speaks about his role at Klutch Sports Group, the power of mentorship, and the importance of being truly present in his children's lives. Throughout the conversation, Bilbo emphasizes the value of learning from failure and the need for authentic connections, both professionally and personally. Thank you Damarius, for your friendship and for coming on the podcast.TakeawaysHow Faith, family, and fatherhood are the core values that guide Bilbo's life.Growing up without a father motivated him in sports as well as being present for his children.Mistakes are opportunities for growth and learning.How you learn more from failure than success in both sports and life.Every child should be encouraged to pursue their own happiness, not just follow in their parent's footsteps.How to find Damarius Bilbo on IG https://www.instagram.com/bilbo8/Send us Fan Mail

Detective Heidi Chance shares her extensive experience in combating human trafficking. She discusses her journey from being a police officer to focusing on the complexities of trafficking, including the vulnerabilities of victims, the role of the internet, and the emotional toll on law enforcement. Detective Chance emphasizes the importance of community awareness, parental guidance, and recognizing signs of trafficking, while also addressing the evolution of legal support for victims. The conversation concludes with resources for parents and the community to help combat this pressing issue.TakeawaysDetective Heidi Chance has over 25 years of law enforcement experience.Traffickers exploit vulnerabilities, not just socioeconomic status.The internet plays a significant role in modern trafficking.Victims often do not see themselves as victims due to brainwashing.Legal support for trafficking cases has evolved positively over time.Recognizing signs of trafficking can help save lives.Parents must engage in conversations about online safety with their children.Technology has made it easier for traffickers to target youth.The emotional toll of working in trafficking is significant for law enforcement.Community outreach and education are crucial in combating trafficking.How to find Detective Heidi Chance and order her book "Talk to Them"www.achanceforawareness.comOn IG www.instagram.com/a_chance_for_awareness/Dad to Dads Podcast on IG www.instagram.com/dadtodads/Send us Fan Mail

In this inspiring episode of the Daddy Dad's Podcast, Robert interviews David Jones, who became a national sensation for hiking 17 miles through the destruction of Hurricane Helene to attend his daughter's wedding. David shares his incredible journey, the challenges he faced, and the determination that drove him to battle through treacherous conditions to fulfill his promise to his daughter. The conversation delves into themes of love, grit, and the lengths a father will go to for his family, offering valuable lessons for all dads.TakeawaysDavid hiked through hurricane destruction to attend his daughter's wedding.He faced numerous obstacles but remained determined to reach his goal.The journey was not just physical but also a testament to a father's love.David's mantra was to walk his daughter down the aisle, which kept him motivated.He emphasizes the importance of having a vision and mission in life.David's experience highlights that we are capable of more than we think.He encourages dads to push their limits and not be afraid of challenges.The story illustrates the power of faith, community and support during tough times.David's journey serves as an inspiration for fathers everywhere.He believes love drives grit and determination. How to find David Jones www.theexcellenceadvisory.comDad to Dads Podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/dadtodads/Send us Fan Mail

Entrepreneur and Best Selling Author, Rob Finlay discusses his book 'Hey Dad...Everything You Should've Learned About Life (But Didn't)', which serves as a heartfelt guide for young adults transitioning into independence. He shares personal anecdotes about parenting, the lessons learned from his own children, and the importance of equipping them with essential life skills. The discussion emphasizes the significance of allowing children to experience failure, the role of parents in fostering independence, and the value of teaching practical skills. Rob also highlights the need for parents to be present and involved in their children's lives, ensuring they grow into compassionate and capable adults.TakeawaysTeaching life skills is crucial for independence.Parents should allow their children to experience failure.Engaging with adults helps children develop social skills.The importance of budgeting and financial literacy is emphasized.Parents should focus on raising decent human beings.How to find Rob Finlay and order his latest book www.robfinlay.comInstagram https://www.instagram.com/robjfinlay/Dad to Dads Podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/dadtodads/Send us Fan Mail

In this episode of the Dad to Dad podcast, Dr. Jann Blackstone discusses her expertise in co-parenting, blended families, and the importance of communication and acceptance in these dynamics. She shares insights from her book, 'The Bonus Family Handbook,' emphasizing the need for collaboration between parents and the role of bonus parents in children's lives. The conversation covers various topics, including discipline, conflict resolution, and the impact of parental alienation, providing valuable advice for navigating the complexities of modern family structures.TakeawaysThe term 'bonus parent' is more inclusive than 'step-parent'.Effective co-parenting requires communication, acceptance, respect, and empathy.Discipline in blended families should be coordinated between parents.Children should not be put in the middle of parental conflicts.Open communication about dating and new partners is essential.Parents should avoid bad mouthing each other in front of children.Establishing a conflict resolution forum can help families navigate issues.Acceptance of each family member's individuality fosters a positive environment.Children need to feel secure and loved by all parental figures.Parents should prioritize the child's needs over personal grievances.How to find Dr. Jann BlackstoneOn IG https://www.instagram.com/bonusfamilies/www.bonusfamilies.comDad to Dads on IG https://www.instagram.com/dadtodads/Send us Fan Mail

SummaryIn this conversation, Michael Pereira shares his journey as a father navigating the challenges of raising a child with autism. He discusses the emotional rollercoaster of diagnosis, the importance of acceptance, and the need for proactive planning for the future. Michael emphasizes the significance of community support, celebrating small victories, and the necessity of being informed and prepared as parents. His advocacy work through his blog, The Autism Voyage, aims to provide resources and support for families facing similar challenges.TakeawaysMichael Pereira emphasizes the importance of community support for families with special needs children.Acceptance of a child's diagnosis is crucial for effective parenting and planning.Parents should focus on celebrating small victories in their child's development.It's essential to seek information and be proactive in addressing a child's needs.Michael's journey highlights the emotional challenges faced by parents during the diagnosis phase.The importance of being aligned with a partner in navigating parenting challenges is crucial.Planning for the future, including financial and care considerations, is vital for parents of special needs children.Michael advocates for a curious mindset when seeking information about autism and related resources.Each child on the spectrum has unique strengths and needs that should be recognized and nurtured.The Autism Voyage blog serves as a resource for parents seeking guidance and community support. Send us Fan Mail

John Kennedy Vaughan of Shields of Strength, shares his journey of understanding love and its profound impact on his life and relationships. He discusses the importance of selflessness in fatherhood, the challenges modern fathers face, and the necessity of discipline in parenting. Kenny emphasizes that love is not just a feeling but a commitment to act in the best interest of others, particularly in the context of family. He also highlights the significance of faith in overcoming fear and the transformative power of love in shaping our lives and relationships.TakeawaysUnderstanding how love radically changes life.Fear can disqualify all preparation and clarity of thought.A loving father prioritizes his family's needs above his own.Discipline is necessary for a child's well-being.Love is not just a feeling; it's a commitment to act.The why behind our actions determines their impact.Gentleness in parenting should not come at the cost of discipline.A strong man is humble and selfless.Children need to know they are loved despite their actions.Jesus embodies the true essence of love. Send us Fan Mail

Having personally been through an 11 year divorce/custody process, Keegan Burke, a divorce strategist, shares his insights on navigating the complexities of divorce, particularly for men. He discusses the importance of having a strategy, understanding the obstacles men face, and the common mistakes made during the divorce process. Keegan emphasizes the need for documentation, dealing with false allegations, and managing relationships with attorneys. He also provides valuable advice for dads going through divorce, highlighting the importance of planning and accountability.TakeawaysA divorce strategist helps men understand the divorce process.Economic considerations are crucial in divorce planning.Men often underestimate the costs associated with divorce.Attorneys may not always provide the best advice for clients.Documenting everything can serve as vital evidence in court.Men need to be proactive in protecting their interests during divorce.The family law system can be biased against men.It's important to choose the right attorney for your case.False allegations are a common tactic in divorce proceedings.Having a solid strategy can significantly improve outcomes in divorce.Send us Fan Mail

In this episode, Dr. Eran Magen discusses the challenges faced by men going through divorce, emphasizing the importance of support systems, emotional well-being, and the impact of parenting on children's lives. He shares insights on how men can navigate the emotional turmoil of divorce, reconstruct their self-image, and find joy in life post-divorce. The discussion also covers strategies for managing conflict, dealing with false allegations, and the significance of building a supportive community. Dr. Magen provides practical advice for men to enhance their mental health and well-being during difficult times and especially around the holiday season.TakeawaysThe relationship between parents and children is crucial for emotional development.Men are at a higher risk of suicide during and after divorce.Support systems are essential for men to cope with emotional challenges.Loneliness is a significant issue for men, especially post-divorce.It's important for men to allow themselves to be happy outside of parenting.Children are sensitive to their parents' emotional states.Scheduling fun activities can improve mental health and well-being.It's okay to have bad days; they are part of the healing process.988 is a vital resource for those in crisis or needing support.Building a supportive community can help men navigate divorcewww.divorcingdads.org/www.instagram.com/dadtodadsSend us Fan Mail

In this episode of the Dad to Dad's Podcast, Robert and Bella Duncan discuss the challenges divorced parents face during the holiday season. They share practical tips to ensure children feel secure and happy, emphasizing the importance of logistics, emotional support, and thoughtful gift-giving. Bella highlights the need for parents to avoid conflict and focus on creating positive memories for their children, reminding listeners that kids only get one childhood.TakeawaysWork out the holiday schedule early to avoid confusion.Assure your kids that you will be okay when they are with the other parent.Avoid discussing contentious issues during the holidays.Encourage your kids to give thoughtful gifts to their co-parent.Remember that your kids only get one childhood, make it count.Logistics help children feel secure and reduce their anxiety.Children often worry about their parents' happiness during the holidays.Keep adult conversations separate from children's experiences.Create a positive holiday atmosphere for your kids.Focus on the joy of the holidays rather than personal www.akidwithtwohomes.comwww.instagram.com/akidwithtwohomeswww.instagram.com/dadtodadsSend us Fan Mail

Rod Richard, Coach & Mentor, shares his journey into fatherhood, emphasizing the importance of being present and the challenges modern fathers face. He introduces the four pillars of fatherhood: faith, family, finance, and fitness, and discusses how these elements intertwine to create a well-rounded approach to parenting. Rod reflects on the state of fatherhood today, noting a resurgence in the value placed on fatherhood and the need for male camaraderie. He offers heartfelt advice for new fathers, encouraging them to embrace their journey and be present for their children.TakeawaysRod emphasizes the importance of being present as a father.The four pillars of fatherhood are faith, family, finance, and fitness.Modern fathers face challenges like work-life balance and self-doubt.Fatherhood is a journey that requires continuous learning and adaptation.The importance of male friendships and support in fatherhood is crucial.Rod believes that every father is the perfect father for their child, flaws and all.Rod encourages fathers to embrace both the good and bad moments of parenting.Conversations about fatherhood are essential for personal growth and community support.www.4fitfatherhood.comhttps://www.instagram.com/dadtodads/Send us Fan Mail

JD Emmons shares his journey from feeling like an outcast in his youth to becoming a sobriety and development mentor. He discusses his struggles with alcohol, the turning point that led him to sobriety, and how his faith played a significant role in his recovery. JD also delves into his fitness journey, highlighting the transformation he experienced after quitting drinking and how he now uses fitness as a mental reset. He emphasizes the importance of choices in life and how he aims to inspire others through his experiences and coaching.Send us Fan Mail

In this episode of the Dad to Dads podcast, Robert engages with relationship specialist Dr. Jeanne Michele to explore the complex topic of infidelity. They discuss the prevalence of infidelity in society, the various forms it can take, and the emotional impact it has on both partners. Dr. Michele emphasizes the importance of communication, self-reflection, and setting boundaries in relationships. The conversation also delves into the differences in how men and women experience betrayal, the role of masculinity, and the potential for healing and rebuilding trust after infidelity. Dr. Michele shares insights from her book, 'The Infidelity Cure,' which offers guidance for those affected by infidelity, including the affair partner. The episode concludes with a discussion on the influence of ancestral patterns on behavior and the importance of seeking professional help to navigate these challenges.TakeawaysInfidelity is a prevalent issue, with 70% of Americans engaging in some form of it.The definition of infidelity can vary between couples and includes emotional and physical betrayals.Social dynamics, including workplace interactions and social media, contribute to the rise of infidelity.Recognizing early warning signs of infidelity can help prevent deeper issues.Infidelity can serve as a wake-up call for couples to address underlying relationship problems.Men often struggle more with the physical aspect of infidelity than women do.The emotional connection is often more painful for women than the physical aspect of infidelity.Setting clear boundaries in relationships is crucial to prevent infidelity.Self-reflection is important for understanding the motivations behind infidelity.Healing from infidelity requires commitment and effort from both partners.www.drjeanemichele.comAmazonBarnes and NobleINFCure.comTheInfidelityCure.comhttps://www.instagram.com/dadtodads/Send us Fan Mail

In this episode of the Dad Dads podcast, Robert interviews former NBA player Cuttino Mobley, who shares insights from his basketball career and his experiences as a father. Cuttino discusses his early life, the influences that shaped him, and the lessons he learned from playing alongside basketball legends. He emphasizes the importance of mentorship, the challenges of parenting, and the values he instills in his children. Cuttino also addresses the societal perceptions of fatherhood and the need for fathers to be present and engaged in their children's lives. The conversation is filled with wisdom, humor, and heartfelt reflections on the joys and responsibilities of being a dad.TakeawaysCuttino reflects on his journey from a late start in basketball to the NBA.Playing with legends like Pippen, Barkley and Hakeem taught him valuable lessons.Mentorship is crucial in both basketball and fatherhood.Cuttino emphasizes the importance of defense in basketball.He discusses the impact of coaching on his understanding of the game.Cuttino enjoys watching current players like Anthony Edwards.He believes in raising children with strong work ethics regardless of gender.Cuttino shares the differences in parenting a son versus a daughter.He expresses the joy and fulfillment he finds in being a father.Send us Fan Mail

In this interview, Robert welcomes back Dr. Peter Salerno, author of 'The Nature and Nurture of Narcissism.' Dr. Salerno discusses his alternative perspective on narcissistic personality disorder and the misconceptions surrounding it. He challenges the traditional theories that attribute narcissism solely to abuse or neglect in childhood, emphasizing the role of genetics and innate temperament. Dr. Salerno also addresses the concept of codependency, arguing that it is not a valid diagnosis and that narcissists can manipulate and hijack the emotions of others. He highlights the importance of understanding the genetic and biological factors that contribute to narcissism. Narcissists thrive on chaos and drama in relationships because of deficiencies in their brain structure and functioning. They have a complete lack of empathy and lower arousal in certain areas of the brain, making stability and normalcy boring to them. They have a distorted perception of reality and believe that drama is the baseline of normal functioning. Narcissists have personal motives in relationships that have nothing to do with the well-being of the other person. When confronted or exposed, they can become vindictive and play the victim.TakeawaysNarcissistic personality disorder should be understood from the perspective of gene-environment interaction, rather than solely attributing it to abuse or neglect in childhood.The traditional theories of narcissism overlook the role of genetics and innate temperament in the development of the disorder.Codependency is not a valid diagnosis and should not be used to explain why individuals attract narcissists.Narcissists have the ability to manipulate and hijack the emotions of others, leading them to behave in ways that are uncharacteristic.It is important to consider the genetic and biological factors that contribute to narcissism in order to better understand and address the disorder. Narcissists thrive on chaos and drama in relationships because stability and normalcy are boring to them.They have a distorted perception of reality and believe that drama is the baseline of normal functioning.Narcissists have personal motives in relationships that have nothing to do with the well-being of the other person.When confronted or exposed, narcissists can become vindictive and play the victim.Send us Fan Mail

Robert welcomes back Erin Schaden, Divorce Coach & Family Law Attorney. In this episode, Robert and Erin discuss divorcing a narcissist. They talk about the prevalence of narcissism in divorce cases and the importance of working with an attorney and divorce coach who have experience dealing with high-conflict divorces. Erin emphasizes the need for strategic planning and preparation when divorcing a narcissist, including understanding the different personality disorders involved and how to approach them. They also discuss the challenges of custody battles with a narcissist and the importance of documentation and having a strong support system. When dealing with a narcissistic ex-spouse in a custody battle, it's important to understand projection and alienation. The narcissist often accuses the other parent of what they are guilty of themselves, and they may manipulate the child to align with them through psychological abuse. It can be difficult to prove alienation because the child may align with the alienating parent out of fear and a lack of alternatives. Children tend to align with the parent they feel safest with, so judges should consider who the child feels safest with when making custody decisions. It's crucial to document everything, even seemingly minor incidents, as they may be useful in court. Communication apps like Our Family Wizard can be helpful in managing communication and reducing conflict. It's important to trust your instincts, be intentional with your words and actions, and avoid badmouthing the other parent to your children. Addressing your own childhood wounds and seeking help from professionals can also be beneficial.TakeawaysDivorcing a narcissist can be extremely challenging and requires strategic planning and preparation.Working with an attorney and divorce coach who have experience dealing with high-conflict divorces is crucial.Understanding the different personality disorders involved and how to approach them is important.Documentation is key in custody battles with a narcissist.Having a strong support system and expanding your frustration tolerance are essential for navigating the divorce process with a narcissist. The narcissist often accuses the other parent of what they are guilty of themselves.Children may align with the alienating parent out of fear and a lack of alternatives.Judges should consider who the child feels safest with when making custody decisions.Document everything, even seemingly minor incidents, as they may be useful in court.Communication apps like Our Family Wizard can help manage communication and reduce conflict.Avoid badmouthing the other parent to your children.Address your own childhood wounds and seek help from professionals.Send us Fan Mail

Robert brings back parent alienation expert Charlie McCready to further discuss parent alienation as well as address the questions and comments from listeners. Charlie discusses the emotional roller coaster that targeted parents go through, including grief, guilt, injustice, isolation, anger, and anxiety. He emphasizes the importance of self-healing and addressing insecurities and vulnerabilities from one's own childhood. We also discuss the dynamics of the alienator and the need to mitigate the damage rather than trying to stop it. Charlie cautions against trying to convince the child that they are being alienated and instead focus on maintaining some semblance of contact and providing unconditional love and support. We also explore triggers, blockers, and expectations that can hinder the healing process. The principal themes of the conversation are: understanding the different experiences of each child, the spectrum of alienating behavior, the impact of enmeshment on children, the intergenerational cycle of alienation, the importance of self-healing, the need for trust and emotional availability, preparing for special days, and maintaining hope.Key TakeawaysParent alienation is a common and heartbreaking experience that leaves targeted parents feeling powerless and isolated.Self-healing is crucial for targeted parents, as they need to address their own insecurities and vulnerabilities from their own childhood.Mitigating the damage caused by the alienator is more realistic than trying to stop it completely.Maintaining some form of contact with the alienated child, even if it is difficult, is important for counterbalancing the negative narrative they are exposed to.Triggers, blockers, and expectations play a significant role in the healing process and need to be identified and addressed. Each child's experience of parental alienation is unique and should be considered individually.Alienating behavior exists on a spectrum, from severe to naive.Enmeshment can have a significant impact on children, leading to long-term psychological effects.The intergenerational cycle of alienation can result in children developing cluster B personalities.Self-healing is crucial for targeted parents to be emotionally available and trustworthy for their children.Preparing for special days and managing expectations can help targeted parents cope with the alienating parent's tactics.Maintaining hope is important, as relationships with alienated children can change over time.Reframing the narrative and focusing on personal growth can empower targeted parents to regain control of their lives.Send us Fan Mail

Interview with Zach Clinton, motivational speaker, author, Vice President of Association of Christian Counselors and President of Ignite Men's Impact Weekend. In this episode Robert and Zach discuss fatherhood from a Biblical perspective. They emphasize the importance of a father's presence in a child's life and the positive impact it has on their mental health, academic performance, and identity development. They also discuss the role of vulnerability and emotional openness in fatherhood, highlighting the need for fathers to model these behaviors for their children. Zach emphasizes the significance of investing in children and providing them with the necessary ingredients for resilience. He encourages fathers to prioritize their families and be consistent in their presence and support. The conversation focuses on the power of words and the importance of creating a positive environment within the home. It emphasizes the role of fathers in shaping their children's lives through their words and actions. The conversation also touches on the topics of discipline, boundaries, and the challenges faced by dads today, including pressure, past mistakes, and the impact of technology. It concludes with a discussion on forgiveness and the importance of choosing to forgive, both others and oneself.TakeawaysA father's presence in a child's life has a significant impact on their mental health, academic performance, and identity development.Fathers should model vulnerability and emotional openness for their children, creating a safe space for them to express and explore their emotions.Investing in children and providing them with the necessary ingredients for resilience is crucial for their growth and development.Prioritizing family and being consistent in presence and support are essential responsibilities of fathers. Words have the power to create a world of hurt or a world of hope and healing.Fathers need to reflect on the world they are creating within their homes and strive to create a positive and uplifting environment.Discipline is not about going easy on kids, but about pushing them to reach their full potential with love and accountability.Dads should strive to be both a friend and a parent to their children, setting boundaries while also fostering a strong relationship.The prevalence of technology, especially smartphones and pornography, poses challenges for dads in maintaining healthy relationships and setting a good example.Forgiveness is a commandment and a choice that brings freedom and healing, both for oneself and for others.Forgiveness does not mean excusing or forgetting the wrongs done, but it allows for personal growth and the possibility of reconciliation.Living an 'even if' mindset, choosing faith and endurance in the face of challenges, can lead to a transformed life.Send us Fan Mail

Robert interviews Jeff Nelligan, author of 'Four Lessons from My Three Sons: How You Can Raise Resilient Sons.' Jeff shares his background and the inspiration behind writing the book. They discuss the importance of resilience and the challenges faced by the current generation. They also touch on topics such as participation trophies, the impact of screens on children, and the value of being early. The four lessons from the book are guiding personal conduct, developing confidence, fostering resilience, and creating resilient kids through hard truths. The conversation discusses the importance of setting goals, holding oneself accountable, and breaking down goals into manageable steps. It emphasizes the need for parents to be actively involved in their children's lives and provide guidance and support. The concept of the 'jackass kid' is introduced, referring to self-obsessed and attention-seeking behaviors that parents should discourage. The impact of COVID-19 on children's physical and mental health is also discussed, highlighting the need for parents to help their children stay active and engaged during challenging times.TakeawaysResilience is the capacity to withstand or recover quickly from difficulties.Parents play a crucial role in raising resilient children.The current generation faces challenges such as living at home longer and excessive screen time.Accomplishments and performance are rewarded and respected in the world.Teaching personal conduct, developing confidence, fostering resilience, and embracing hard truths are essential for raising resilient kids. Setting goals and holding oneself accountable are important for personal growth and development.Parents should actively engage with their children and provide guidance and support.Discouraging self-obsessed and attention-seeking behaviors in children is crucial.The COVID-19 pandemic has had a negative impact on children's physical and mental health, and parents should help them stay active and engaged.Send us Fan Mail

Reggie George shares his inspiring story of his daughter's near-fatal stabbing and miraculous recovery. After being stabbed in the head with a pair of scissors by another student, his daughter underwent an eight-hour brain surgery and suffered a massive stroke. She was paralyzed and had to spend 92 days in the hospital, including time in the ICU and rehab. Despite the initial prognosis, she defied all expectations and made a remarkable recovery, regaining her mobility and cognitive abilities. Reggie attributes their strength and resilience to their faith and the support of their family. Reggie George shares his journey of forgiveness and the birth of Father Figure Apparel. He talks about the importance of father figures and the impact they have on children's lives. Reggie emphasizes the need for fathers to be present and intentional, rather than striving for perfection. He also discusses the role of the community in supporting and uplifting fatherhood. The conversation highlights the power of vulnerability and the lessons learned from difficult experiences.Key TakeawaysThe importance of faith and spirituality in dealing with difficult situationsThe power of resilience and determination in overcoming challengesThe impact of strong family support in times of crisisThe ability to find strength and purpose in being a father and leader, Father Figure Apparel was born out of Reggie George's journey of forgiveness and the desire to highlight the importance of father figures.Being present and intentional as a father is more important than striving for perfection.Fatherhood is not limited to biological fathers; father figures play a crucial role in children's lives.The community has a responsibility to support and uplift fatherhood.Vulnerability and open communication with children can strengthen the father-child relationship.Difficult experiences can teach valuable lessons and lead to personal growth.Send us Fan Mail

In this episode, Robert interviews Ann Silvers, author of the book 'Abuse of Men by Women.' They discuss the prevalence of domestic violence against men, the misconceptions surrounding it, and the reasons behind it. Ann shares that domestic violence is just as common among men as it is among women, with a ratio of 1 in 2 for both genders. However, the issue is often overlooked and underreported. They also discuss the various forms of partner abuse and the tactics used by women to overcome the size disadvantage. The conversation highlights the need for emotional intelligence and coping skills to address domestic violence. False accusations and the devastating impact they have on men are discussed. The conversation highlights the cultural bias towards believing women and disbelieving men, which has led to a fast road for malicious women to get what they want. The conversation also touches on the challenges men face in leaving abusive relationships, including fear of losing their children, economic constraints, and shame and embarrassment. Warning signs of abuse in men are mentioned, and resources for support are provided.TakeawaysDomestic violence against men is more common than previously thought, with a ratio of 1 in 2 for both men and women.Partner abuse can take various forms, including physical, verbal, sexual, financial, legal, spiritual, and psychological/emotional abuse.Women can use tactics such as surprise attacks, false accusations, and object use to overcome the size disadvantage.Emotional intelligence and coping skills are crucial in addressing domestic violence.Cultural attitudes and media portrayals contribute to the misconception that violence against men is acceptable or humorous. False accusations can have devastating consequences for men, including loss of custody, domestic violence classes, and damage to their reputation.The cultural bias of believing women and disbelieving men has created a fast road for malicious women to make false accusations.Men may stay in abusive relationships due to fear of losing their children, economic constraints, and shame and embarrassment.It is important to take men's stories of abuse seriously and provide support without minimizing their experiences.Warning signs of abuse in men include physical injuries, emotional belittlement, and minimizing themselves.Resources for support include recording evidence, seeking legal advice, and finding people who can provide declarations of abuse.Dad to Dads Podcast of IG https://www.instagram.com/dadtodads/Dad to Dads Podcast on YT http://www.youtube.com/@dadtodadspodcastAnn Silvers www.annsilvers.comAnn Silvers on IG https://www.instagram.com/ann_silvers/Abuse OF Men BY Women: It Happens, It Hurts, and It's Time to Get Real About It      https://annsilvers.com/collections/books/products/abuse-of-men-by-women-it-happens-it-hurtsBuilding Skills to Uplevel Life: Silver Lining Emotional Intelligence Workbook https://www.amazon.com/s?k=ann+silvers&s=date-desc-rank&crid=36FDRN2YT1U69&qid=1717372580&sprefix=%2Caps%2C90&ref=sr_st_date-desc-rank&ds=v1%3AdSDgAo%2BbXyqR6ab35oBe3lEQzslBqS5qyklZXUJHwTMSend us Fan Mail

Dr. MyRon Edmonds and Robert discuss the challenges and rewards of fatherhood. Dr. Edmonds shares his personal experience with father wounds and the impact it had on his relationship with his own father and his journey as a father. They emphasize the importance of leading with authenticity and vulnerability, and the need for fathers to model the behavior they expect from their children. They also discuss the significance of being present in the lives of their children and the power of relationships in shaping their development. The conversation explores the importance of fathers and the impact they have on their children's lives. It highlights the challenges faced by fathers in being present and engaged with their families. The societal attack on the role of fathers is discussed, along with the need for fathers to be mentors to other men. The conversation also touches on the divisiveness in society and the importance of unity in recognizing the importance of fatherhood. The power of fathers in shaping their children's identity and the crisis of identity in society are explored. The conversation concludes with a discussion about the Dr. MyRon Edmonds' new book 'Men's Breakthrough Devotional' and the 'Winning Circle' men's community.Key TakeawaysFatherhood is a journey of self-mastery and personal growth.Children learn more about life through observation of their fathers than through direct communication.Fathers need to lead with authenticity and vulnerability, acknowledging their own struggles and mistakes.Being present in the lives of their children is the best gift fathers can offer.The impact of fathers on their children's lives and relationships is profound.Intergenerational trauma can be passed down through relational experiences.Fathers need to model the behavior they expect from their children.Honesty and transparency are essential in building trust and integrity with children.Being a father is both challenging and rewarding, and brings immense joy.Fatherhood requires constant self-reflection and a commitment to personal growth. Fathers need to be present and engaged with their families, as their absence can have a significant impact on their children's lives.There is a societal attack on the role of fathers, which undermines their importance and value.Fathers should serve as mentors to other men, helping them navigate the challenges of fatherhood.Society needs to recognize and appreciate the importance of fatherhood, fostering unity and support for fathers.Fathers play a crucial role in shaping their children's identity and providing them with a sense of purpose and direction.There is a crisis of identity in society, which can be addressed through the presence and guidance of fathers.The book 'Men's Breakthrough Devotional' offers inspiration and guidance for men seeking to optimize their lives.The 'Winning Circle' men's community provides support, accountability, and camaraderie for men striving to excel in their roles as husbands, fathers, and men of integrity.Send us Fan Mail

Robert discusses parent alienation with expert Charlie McCready. Parent alienation is when one parent tries to damage the relationship between the other parent and their children. It often involves withholding the children from seeing the targeted parent and spreading negative narratives about them. Parent alienation can be divided into two phases: pre-alienation, where negative comments and undermining behaviors start to occur, and full-blown alienation, which intensifies after separation. Alienators are often driven by fear and insecurity, and they use control and manipulation to maintain power over the children. Charlie advises parents to focus on their children's needs, disengage from their own emotions, and send positive messages of love and support. For parents with no contact, he encourages them to learn about alienation and never give up hope. The principal themes of the conversation are reaching out to alienated children, the challenges of limited or no contact, the importance of patience and love, the need to focus on the present and future rather than the past, the danger of overwhelming children with emotions, the importance of being a positive role model, the impact of subconscious programming on children's behavior, the handling of angry children, the importance of self-help and personal growth, and the message of hope and resilience.Key Takeaways:Parent alienation is a form of abuse that damages the relationship between a targeted parent and their children.Alienation can occur in two phases: pre-alienation, where negative comments and undermining behaviors start, and full-blown alienation, which intensifies after separation.Alienators are driven by fear and insecurity, and they use control and manipulation to maintain power over the children.Parents should focus on their children's needs, disengage from their own emotions, and send positive messages of love and support.For parents with no contact, it is important to learn about alienation and never give up hope for rebuilding the relationship with their children. Reaching out to alienated children requires patience, love, and respect for their boundaries.Limited or no contact with children is a harsh reality for some parents, but they must continue to conduct their lives and be prepared to help their children when they are ready.When children reach out, it is important for parents to avoid overwhelming them with emotions and focus on the present and future rather than the past.Parents should be positive role models and avoid talking about alienation, instead focusing on building trust and a healthy relationship with their children.Parents should be prepared to handle angry children by validating their feelings and creating a safe space for them to express their emotions.Self-help and personal growth are essential for parents to heal and overcome the emotional roller coaster of alienation.Hope and resilience are key in navigating the challenges of parental alienation and rebuilding relationships with children.Send us Fan Mail

In this episode Robert interviews Bella Duncan (from www.akidwithtwohomes.com ) and her father Craig Duncan about their experiences as a divorced family. They discuss the emotions and challenges that arise during the transition between houses, particularly during pick-up and drop-off. Bella shares her perspective as a child of divorce, highlighting the mix of excitement and anxiety she feels during these transitions. Craig emphasizes the importance of being in a good state of mind and focusing on the well-being of the children during these moments. They also discuss how to handle holidays and vacations, emphasizing the need for flexibility and focusing on the positive aspects of each situation. In this part of the conversation, Bella and her dad discuss the days when they miss each other extra and how they cope with it. Bella shares her experience of waking up in the middle of the night and worrying about her dad, and how her mom would comfort her. She emphasizes the importance of parents acknowledging and validating their child's feelings of missing the other parent, rather than dismissing or minimizing them. Craig adds that it's important for parents to accept that their children love and adore both parents equally, and to create a safe space for them to express their emotions. They also discuss the importance of maintaining a lifelong relationship with their children and putting their needs first.Transitions between houses can be emotionally challenging for children of divorce, as they experience a mix of excitement and anxiety.Parents should strive to be in a good state of mind during pick-up and drop-off, focusing on the well-being of the children and creating a positive atmosphere.Flexibility is key when it comes to holidays and vacations, allowing for celebrations to take place on different days and making the most of the time spent with each parent.Children of divorce may have moments of longing for a 'normal' family, but it's important for parents to remind them that their unique family dynamic can still be fulfilling and something to be proud of.Open communication and empathy are crucial in helping children navigate the challenges of divorce and ensuring they feel supported and loved by both parents. Children may have days when they miss their other parent extra, and it's important for parents to acknowledge and validate their feelings.Parents should create a safe space for their children to express their emotions and offer support and comfort.It's crucial for parents to accept that their children love and adore both parents equally, and to foster a positive co-parenting relationship.Maintaining a lifelong relationship with children requires effort and understanding, and it's important to prioritize their needs.Parents should focus on the well-being and happiness of their children, even if it means putting aside personal conflicts or differences.Send us Fan Mail

Last time on the podcast she became a viral sensation because of some of her remarks. Erin Schaden, a family law attorney, divorce coach, and mediator, is back on the podcast and she's not holding back.  Great interview where we discuss various topics related to divorce and custody battles. Erin shares her insights on how unfortunately custody can be used as a weapon to hurt the other parent, the impact of false allegations in obtaining protective orders, and the manipulation of child support. We also discuss the importance of focusing on the best interests of the children and the need for maturity and accountability in divorce proceedings. We also explore the various aspects of domestic violence, gender bias in restraining orders, the impact of domestic violence on men, the perception of men and women in divorce, the role of emotional immaturity in divorce, the flaws in the divorce process, the potential negative impact of AI in divorce, and the importance of taking responsibility and creating safe spaces. Custody battles can often become a tool for one parent to hurt the other, leading to negative consequences for the children involved.False allegations in obtaining protective orders can be used as a strategy to gain an advantage in custody disputes.Child support guidelines may not always be fair, and lower-income individuals can struggle to meet their financial obligations while maintaining a relationship with their children.It is crucial for parents to prioritize the well-being of their children and avoid using them as pawns in divorce proceedings. Domestic violence is a serious issue that affects both men and women.Gender bias can exist in the process of obtaining restraining orders.Men can also be victims of domestic violence and face challenges in seeking help.Emotional immaturity can contribute to the breakdown of relationships.The divorce process can be flawed and lead to unnecessary conflict.Advancements in AI may not necessarily improve the divorce process.Creating safe spaces and promoting understanding can help improve relationships and prevent divorce.This is an episode you do not want to miss!!Send us Fan Mail

In this episode, Dr. Daniel David, men's mental health expert, discusses the impact of narcissism and borderline personality disorder on children. He explains how children's identity development is affected when their needs are overshadowed by a narcissistic parent's need for attention and admiration. Dr. David emphasizes the importance of positive regard and mirroring in a child's development and the role of both mothers and fathers in providing nurturing and acceptance. He also discusses the challenges of mother enmeshment and the negative impact it can have on boys' ability to form healthy relationships in adulthood. This conversation explores the impact of unhealthy mother-son relationships, the influence of 90s parenting on these relationships, and the theme of control in narcissism and borderline personality disorder. It also discusses the need for assertiveness in passive children, mothers' understanding of child development, and the importance of letting go and allowing children to experience life. TakeawaysChildren's identity development is influenced by the positive regard and mirroring they receive from their parents.Narcissistic and borderline personality disorder parents often prioritize their own needs over their children's, leading to a deficit in the child's sense of self.Mothers and fathers play different roles in a child's development, with mothers providing nurturing love and fathers providing accepting love.Children who grow up with narcissistic parents may struggle to develop their own identity and may exhibit passive or people-pleasing behaviors.It is important for non-disordered parents to provide unconditional love and affirmation to their children, offsetting the negative impact of a narcissistic parent.Mother enmeshment can hinder a boy's ability to separate from his mother and form healthy relationships in adulthood. Unhealthy mother-son relationships can lead to enmeshment and hinder the son's ability to form healthy relationships with women.The overindulgence and overprotectiveness of children in the 90s has contributed to a generation of highly anxious and depressed individuals.Control is a central theme in narcissism and borderline personality disorder, with narcissistic parents seeking to maintain a positive image and borderline parents fearing abandonment.Encouraging assertiveness in passive children can help them develop their own voice and set boundaries.Mothers need to understand child development and the importance of letting go, allowing their children to develop their own identities.Send us Fan Mail

In this episode, I interview best selling author David Magee, author of ‘Dear William, A Father’s Memoir of Addiction, Recovery, Love and Loss’. We delve into Magee's book 'Dear William,' which explores the importance of preparing children for life’s challenges as well as the struggles and recovery of an American family. Magee emphasizes the significance of vulnerability and honest conversations in relationships, as well as the need to break the cycle of brokenness while sharing personal experiences of addiction and mental health issues within his family. We also discuss the pressure parents feel to shape their children's lives and the importance of finding internal joy. In this conversation, Magee discusses his regrets as a parent and the importance of listening to children, while also emphasizing the role of being a mentor rather than dictating the path for children. David shares a powerful moment with his late son William, where they looked up at the stars on an extremely cold night in New Mexico and felt a deep connection to God. He also discusses the creation of the William McGee Center at Ole Miss and the upcoming movie adaptation of his book 'Dear William.' TakeawaysVulnerability and honest conversations are crucial in building strong relationships.Addiction and mental health issues are complex and require compassion and understanding.Parents should focus on internal joy and helping their children become the best versions of themselves, rather than trying to shape their lives according to societal expectations.Breaking the cycle of brokenness requires self-reflection, recognizing mistakes, and making changes. Parents should focus on cultivating relationships with their children and listening to them rather than making decisions for them.Being a mentor involves guiding and supporting children while allowing them to find their own path.Letting children struggle and take personal responsibility helps them develop resilience.Finding moments of connection with loved ones can be powerful and transformative.Send us Fan Mail