Spiraling Up: Why We’re All Traumatized Right Now (And How to Regain Control) w/ Lauren Tobey

Send us Fan MailAre you just "getting by" or are you actually living? 🌪️In this episode of Surviving-ish, we sit down with TikTok’s favorite trauma-informed coach, Lauren Tobey, to pull back the curtain on why modern life feels so heavy. If you’ve ever felt guilty for being stressed when "nothing is wrong," or if you're a "high-functioning" pro at masking your depression, this conversation is for you.We dive deep into the Ambient Trauma of 2026—the constant, low-grade stress of simply existing in today’s world. Lauren opens up about her own "fireball" moments, losing her identity in a marriage, and the exact moment she realized she was stuck in a loop.What we’re breaking down:The 4 Stages of the Spiral: Are you in the Ashes, Ember, Flame, or Rise phase?High-Functioning Depression: Why it’s often actually Complex Trauma in disguise.Why Meditation Fails: The science of why "zen" tools don't work when you’re triggered.The "Jugular" Effect: How to talk politics and hard truths without destroying your relationships.Spiraling Into Control: Reclaiming your autonomy when the world feels chaotic.https://www.tiktok.com/@laurentobeyspiralhttps://www.laurentobey.com/https://www.instagram.com/laurentobeyspiral/#TraumaRecovery #HighFunctioningDepression #MentalHealthMatters #SpiralingIntoControl #AmbientTrauma #SurvivingIsh #LaurenToby #HealingJourney #SelfAutonomy #TikTokTherapySupport the show