Starting Over at 54: Lisa Blaisdell’s Journey Through Divorce and Rediscovering Herself

In this episode of The Art of Imperfect Adulting, host Amy Stone sits down with Lisa Blaisdell to discuss what it means to start over after divorce at age 54. Lisa shares her personal journey of leaving both a long-term marriage and a successful career, digging deep into the challenges, fears, and possibilities that come with redefining life in midlife.About the Guest:Lisa Blaisdell is a coach, entrepreneur, and advocate for women navigating midlife transitions, especially those considering or experiencing divorce. After walking away from a 27-year marriage and a thriving business, Lisa now helps women in similar seasons find clarity, confidence, and support—without trauma or high conflict, but with honesty and compassion.Main Topics Covered:Lisa’s story of divorce at age 54 after 27 years of marriageThe emotional and practical complexities of ending a “good enough” marriageNavigating layered fears: impact on children, family, and community perceptionsThe importance of honesty with oneself when making life-changing decisionsRebuilding identity, happiness, and possibility post-divorceHow Lisa now supports women facing similar crossroads through coaching and group programsQuote from the Episode:“I had to really just stand on my own two feet for the first time, really, in my life… I had to radically get out of my comfort zone.” – Lisa BlaisdellTimestamps:00:00 Introduction and Lisa’s background00:49 Walking away from business and marriage – the catalyst05:34 Looking back to the early days of Lisa’s relationship09:59 The “driver’s seat”: why Lisa initiated divorce12:16 Division of household workload and emotional disconnect16:03 Denial, guilt, and the fear of disrupting family life21:29 The “explosion” and reality of separation25:56 Things not to say to someone getting divorced28:39 Life after divorce and helping others start over34:01 Lisa’s coaching work and support group details37:16 Final quick-fire questions with LisaSpecial Offer:Free Midlife Journal to help women start the honest conversation with themselves. It's an easy way to answer questions about your life, how happy you truly are and if you are longing for change. They can download it at http://lisablaisdell.com .As a note from the show host if you have trouble claiming the offer from the guest please reach out directly to the guest.If you love the show and you'd like to support it directly you can tip the host here https://imperfect-adulting.captivate.fm/supportNever Miss a Moment of Imperfect AdultingWe invite you to join our email community and let us bring the podcast directly to you! As a subscriber, you'll receive notifications about new episodes, exclusive offers from our amazing guests, and easier access to any of the important links mentioned on the show—no more scrambling to write down websites or remember special codes.Why subscribe?Stay up-to-date without checking your podcast appGet guest offers delivered straight to your inboxAccess all important links in one convenient placeCatch the highlights even when you don't have time to listenAre you ready? Join us at https://www.imperfectadulting.com If you have a story to share and you'd like to be a guest on The Art of Imperfect Adulting, here are the steps for how you can make that happen. Pitch yourself at https://www.imperfectadulting.com/be-a-guestHere are a few resources that Amy uses to make all this great content. These are affiliate links :-)For livestreaming and recording ECamm https://www.ecamm.com/mac/ecammlive/?fp_ref=amy69Podcast hosting and distribution: Captivate FM https://www.captivate.fm/signup?ref=ntczmwi Website hosting with Siteground https://www.siteground.com/?referrer_id=9115590Ai Transcription Tool: Castmagic https://get.castmagic.io/ugrmjjrt8ofjFor Email I recently switched to Beehiiv https://www.beehiiv.com?via=Amy-Stonebefore that I used Kit. Books I like and books written by show guests on Bookshop.org https://bookshop.org/lists/podcast-guest-authors