EPISODE · May 4, 2026 · 28 MIN
Staying quiet isn't keeping the peace: avoiding hard conversations in your relationship
from Put Yourself First · host Kat Horrocks
If you've been holding something back from your partner - hoping it'll resolve itself, telling yourself you're overthinking it, or convincing yourself it's not that big a deal - this episode is for you.In this episode I'm talking about avoidance. Not just why it feels easier in the moment, but what it's actually costing you and your relationship over time.In this episode we cover:Why avoidance isn't neutral - it's slowly poisoning your relationshipThe moment avoidance becomes a red flag (and why you might be the one waving it)The feminine energy myth that keeps women stuck and silentWhy "I've already told him" is often not the full storyWhat's really underneath the avoidance - and what to do about itIf you're ready to stop carrying it all silently and start feeling actually supported in your relationship, this one is for you.LINKSInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/kat_horrocks/1:1 Coaching (video invite with details) - https://www.khorrocks.com/private-inviteSisterhood - https://www.khorrocks.com/sisterhoodJoin the Email Newsletter (+ get a Put Yourself First meditation) - https://www.khorrocks.com/meditation
What this episode covers
If you've been holding something back from your partner - hoping it'll resolve itself, telling yourself you're overthinking it, or convincing yourself it's not that big a deal - this episode is for you.In this episode I'm talking about avoidance. Not just why it feels easier in the moment, but what it's actually costing you and your relationship over time.In this episode we cover:Why avoidance isn't neutral - it's slowly poisoning your relationshipThe moment avoidance becomes a red flag (and why you might be the one waving it)The feminine energy myth that keeps women stuck and silentWhy "I've already told him" is often not the full storyWhat's really underneath the avoidance - and what to do about itIf you're ready to stop carrying it all silently and start feeling actually supported in your relationship, this one is for you.LINKSInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/kat_horrocks/1:1 Coaching (video invite with details) - https://www.khorrocks.com/private-inviteSisterhood - https://www.khorrocks.com/sisterhoodJoin the Email Newsletter (+ get a Put Yourself First meditation) - https://www.khorrocks.com/meditation
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