Stop fixing, start connecting

Send us Fan Mail Mum, do you ever feel like no matter how hard you try to help, you just can’t seem to break through to your teen? You’ve got the advice, the solutions, the answers, but when you offer them, she shuts down. The more you try to fix things, the more distant you both feel. It’s exhausting. And honestly, it can be disheartening. You just want to help her, to connect with her, but all you’re left with is frustration and a growing sense of disconnection. Here’s the thing: it’s not about fixing her problems - it’s about connecting with her in a way that truly matters. In today’s episode, we’re talking about why stopping the fixing is the key to deepening your relationship with your teen. I’ll share simple, powerful ways to start truly listening and how it creates the space for real connection to happen. You don’t need to have all the answers - just the ability to be present. So, grab a cup of tea (or wine - we’re all friends here), and let’s dive into how stopping the fix can help you start the real connection you’ve been craving with your daughter. If you’re listening to this thinking, “that’s me,” I’ve got something for you. It’s called Connect the Dots. It’s a really simple guide to help you slow down, look at what you’re actually seeing, and then zoom out and consider what else might be going on for your daughter. You can grab it for free here. Don’t forget to subscribe so you’re the first to get new episodes, and leave me a review - it helps other mums find the podcast too. Follow me on instagram or LinkedIn Let me know how you found this episode. See you next time! 💛