Stop Living For Approval And Start Choosing For Yourself

What if knowing what you want is actually an act of self-worth? As women, we’re often taught to look outside ourselves for the answers: what we should wear, how we should look, what we should buy, and even what we should want. In this episode, I’m having a very different kind of conversation with Rachel Moscaritolo and Amanda Watkins, the women behind Bespoke by A+R, about jewelry, entrepreneurship, empowerment, and what happens when you stop letting other people tell you what you want. Rather than starting with what is available in a traditional retail store, Rachel and Amanda begin by understanding the individual–her lifestyle, preferences, and what she actually wants. That idea connects directly to my From Corset to Crown message–moving away from pressure and approval and toward self-trust and knowing who you are. I also share the deeply personal story of losing my wedding rings in the ocean and the realization that came from it. ConclusionLosing my rings initially made me feel shame and guilt. But when I found them, I realized the rings weren’t truly lost. I just needed to know where to look. And I think so many women need that reminder. You are not lost. You don't need to earn your self-worth. Your value is already within you, and you only need to "find" it.In This Episode:- How two women turned an idea into a business- Why traditional jewelry shopping can feel stressful and intimidating- Starting with what you want instead of what you’re told to want- How social media and comparison influence our choices- The story behind Carrie’s lost wedding rings- Understanding value, trust, and the jewelry industry- Why the lost rings became a powerful lesson in self-worth- Building community and creating something that empowers womenJoin the BS Club:https://www.disruptivenutrition.com/bsclub Pre-Order the Book, From Corset to Crown!Get your copy of "From Corset to Crown" (and I'll also give you a ton of awesome bonuses to make the learning really stick) at: https://www.carrielupoli.com/corsettocrown From Corset to Crown Live Event in Nashville on October 2-4, 2026: The ultimate girls' trip is on! Get your tickets here (and use code GET50 to get $50 off the General Admission ticket): https://www.disruptivenutrition.com/liveevent2026 Listen to This Episode on Your Favorite Podcast Channel:Follow and listen on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/from-corset-to-crown/id1507293016Follow and listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0zfk9YgYTM95RVKqcW3VGFSubscribe and watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@carrieLupoliofficial/podcasts?sub_confirmation=1Connect with Rachel and Amanda:Website – https://bespokebar.com/Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/bespokejewelrybarConnect with Carrie Lupoli:Website – https://www.carrielupoli.com/homepage Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/carrie_lupoli/ Podcast Blog – https://www.carrielupoli.com/podcast Other website – https://www.disruptivenutrition.com/Other Related Episodes: Looking for more reasons to let go of the corset? Listen to these episodes:Part 3: The One Thing: How to Straighten Your Crown:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/part-3-the-one-thing-how-to-straighten-your-crown/id1507293016?i=1000782741280The Hidden Power of Self-Love:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-hidden-power-of-self-love-229/id1507293016?i=1000712181692Disclaimer:This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. Always consult a qualified healthcare professional before making changes to your health routine.