EPISODE · Oct 7, 2026 · 13 MIN
Stop Lying to your Spouse
from Turn it Up! Marriage Tips and Tools · host by Kelly DuPée
Little lies are one of the fastest ways to create broken trust in marriage, and most couples don't even realize they're doing it. In this video, Christian marriage coach and police chaplain Kelly DuPee breaks down why white lies do so much damage to your marriage, and gives you five practical steps to finally stop telling them.------------------------------------------------In this video you will learn:- Why "harmless" white lies actually create broken trust in marriage over time- The real fear underneath most lying (hint: it's not what you think)- Five practical steps to stop lying to your spouse for good- How to confess a mistake before you're caught, and why it matters- How to respond when your spouse tells you the truth, so they keep telling you the truthIf honesty has become a struggle in your marriage, this marriage advice will give you a practical, Biblical path back to trust.------------------------------------------------Scriptures referenced: Ephesians 4:25, Proverbs 12:22, Proverbs 28:13, John 8:32, Ephesians 4:15, James 5:16, Proverbs 15:1, Ephesians 4:26------------------------------------------------For personalized help, book your free 30-minute strategy call. Visit turnitup.coach or call or text 626-804-1731 or schedule online at https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-strategy-callGet your free digital copy of my book, Turn It Up: How to Have the Lifelong Marriage That You Really Want: https://turnitup.coach/75Download my free Couples Communication Guide: https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguideWatch my video on building an honest marriage, How to Create an Atmosphere of Honesty in Your Marriage: https://youtu.be/5K4Lg_COrpo------------------------------------------------ABOUT KELLYKelly DuPee is a Christian marriage coach, ordained pastor, and author who helps couples avoid the pain of divorce so that they can have the marriage God wants them to have. He holds a Master's degree in theology and a Bachelor's degree in psychology, a combination that allows him to offer both Biblically grounded and research-based solutions to marriage challenges. After 35 years serving as an associate pastor at a megachurch, Kelly stepped into full-time Christian marriage coaching while continuing his ministry as an ordained pastor and active police chaplain serving his local department and community. His chaplaincy work has equipped him to help couples and individuals process traumatic experiences, de-escalate conflict, communicate more effectively, and grieve loss. Married to his wife for 39 years, Kelly has coached hundreds of couples from across the United States and internationally. His approach is practical, faith-based, and built on nearly four decades of walking with real people through real marriage struggles.------------------------------------------------#christianmarriage #christianmarriagecoach #marriageadvice #marriagehelp #marriagecommunication #biblicalmarriage #christiancouple #relationshipadvice #marriagetips #christianliving#brokentrust #honesty #lyingtoyourspouse #trustinmarriage
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