Struggle Pleasing Spouse?

Do you struggle with pleasing your spouse? In this episode of the Turn It Up Marriage Tips and Tools Show, Coach Kelly, a pastor, police chaplain, marriage coach, and author, addresses the common struggle of not being able to please one’s spouse and offers insightful solutions. Drawing from personal experiences and biblical teachings, specifically Psalm 4:5, Kelly emphasizes the importance of learning one's spouse's likes and love languages to offer 'right sacrifices'. Through a humorous story about a husband's missing wife, Kelly illustrates the profound lack of knowledge some partners have about each other compared to material possessions. He underlines the significance of giving, serving, and prioritizing your spouse's needs over your own, suggesting practical ways to demonstrate love and make sacrifices. Additionally, Kelly encourages inviting God into the relationship and trusting His guidance to foster a lifelong, fulfilling marriage. He concludes by offering a free digital copy of his book and a free clarity session for couples looking to enrich their marriage. 00:00 Welcome to the Turn It Up Marriage Tips and Tools Show 00:04 Understanding the Art of Pleasing Your Spouse 01:12 The Biblical Perspective on Pleasing Your Partner 01:57 Learning Your Spouse's Likes Through Observation 05:04 The Importance of Sacrifice in Marriage 07:37 Incorporating God into Your Marriage 10:37 Seeking External Help for a Stronger Marriage 11:22 Final Thoughts and Resources To get a free digital copy of Kelly's book, Turn it up, go to www.turnitup.coach/75 To book a free 60 minute call with Kelly, just go to www.turnitup.coach