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Jan 25, 2023 17 min

Sub Space, is it worth the hype?

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What is Sub Space? Have you ever felt it? And how do we get there? In this episode, I am diving into the sought-after state known as Sub Space, discussing the pros and cons, what it might look like for you, and how to navigate it. Not everyone has experienced it, but is it really worth the hype? Also, points for anyone who catches the Friends reference in there! Follow my backup instagram @subinthecity_ Sign up to my mailing list Support the Show. Join my brand-new members community! Sign up to my mailing list! This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit subinthecity.substack.com/subscribe

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