SWM 043 – Lasting longer, a spouse’s sexual past, light bondage, a bland sex life, and wanting to stop trying

Lasting longer, a spouse’s sexual past, light bondage, a bland sex life, and wanting to stop trying. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. Today we’re going to be answering a bunch of reader’s questions from last month from our anonymous Have A Question page. I’ve been doing my best to keep up with my promise of doing a podcast every month our supporters managed to hit our first support goal. It’s been a little difficult this month as we’ve been trying to reconfigure our lives a bit to get more exercise in. My wife is training for an 13km Spartan obstacle course race in August and I’ve been trying to train with her to help her keep going. It's nice to have a shared hobby to work on, and I actually managed to run for 20 minutes the other day, without stopping, which I’m pretty proud of. But, I have to start scheduling time for podcast recording as we’re actually closing in on the next support goal, which will mean weekly podcast episodes. It will also mean tackling more than just reader’s questions. If you’re interested in more frequent episodes, check our our support page at uncoveringintimacy.com/donate. As well, our supports get to discuss the questions as they come in, and their thoughts often make it into the podcast and posts. With that out of the way, let’s get on to the questions. I am wondering if I should be concerned if my wife is looking up ex boyfriends online/Facebook? One is no longer alive. I saw it on the family computer so it wasn’t hidden and I wasn’t snooping. I am not sure how to feel about it, but I don’t feel very good. Thanks I think if you don’t feel good about it, it might be worth a discussion. I don’t think she’s done anything wrong simply by looking someone up, but your feelings about it should probably be explored and discussed.