SWM016: What being the head of the household means to me

These days, standing up and saying that your the head of your household can be a bit dangerous for men.  With gender equality so strong in our society, the idea of gender roles is often scoffed at,  looked own upon.  I've heard many people say that patriarchy is just an excuse for men to do what they want, when they want.  I don't see it that way.  Here's what being the head of the household means to me.