EPISODE · Aug 20, 2015 · 31 MIN
Ten Reasons Why Men Refuse to Seek Therapy
from Mental Health Today Show | Anxiety Coping Skills & Mental Wellness · host John Cordray, LPC | Overthinking & Mental Wellness Expert
Men, you have a hard time admitting you need help, right? Even when it comes to asking for directions. I get it. I have a hard time asking for directions too, but as a man and a therapist, I want to encourage you to at least consider talking to a therapist.In this episode, I talk about the 10 reasons why men refuse to seek help.Ten Reasons Why Men Refuse to Seek Therapy:Shame. He might appear weak.Downplay. He thinks his problem really isn't that big of a deal.Private. He doesn't want anyone to know his problems.Defiance. He doesn't want anyone to tell him he's wrong.Narcissistic. He thinks he is better than others.Avoidance. He doesn't want to dig up the past.Embarrassment. He's concerned about what others will think.Toughness. He has been told all their life that "boys don't cry". He doesn't want to reveal weakness.Martyrdom. He feels like he deserves what happened to him.Guilt. He thinks it was his fault in the first place.To find learn more about emotionally healthy living visit www.johncordray.com.Find John on Twitter: @JohnPCordraySmells Like Humans Like listening to funny friends discuss curious human behavior.Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the showRate the show: If you enjoyed this episode, please consider providing an honest rating of the show here www.mentalhealthtodayshow.com/reviews/new .Disclaimer: The Mental Health Today Show is for educational purposes only and should not be interpreted as therapy. If you are seeking therapy, please contact a licensed therapist for help.Ready for weekly tips to quiet overthinking and reclaim mental freedom? Subscribe to The Mental Freedom newsletter, actionable insights delivered for high achievers and overthinkers. Sign up here: https://johncordray.me/subscribe From John Cordray, LPC – Creator of MyndStill app @JohnCordrayLPC on X/LinkedIn Informational support only—not a substitute for professional therapy.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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Men, you have a hard time admitting you need help, right? Even when it comes to asking for directions. I get it. I have a hard time asking for directions too, but as a man and a therapist, I want to encourage you to at least consider talking to a therapist.In this episode, I talk about the 10 reasons why men refuse to seek help.Ten Reasons Why Men Refuse to Seek Therapy:Shame. He might appear weak.Downplay. He thinks his problem really isn't that big of a deal.Private. He doesn't want anyone to know his problems.Defiance. He doesn't want anyone to tell him he's wrong.Narcissistic. He thinks he is better than others.Avoidance. He doesn't want to dig up the past.Embarrassment. He's concerned about what others will think.Toughness. He has been told all their life that "boys don't cry". He doesn't want to reveal weakness.Martyrdom. He feels like he deserves what happened to him.Guilt. He thinks it was his fault in the first place.To find learn more about emotionally healthy living visit www.johncordray.com.Find John on Twitter: @JohnPCordraySmells Like HumansLike listening to funny friends discuss curious human behavior.Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the showRate the show: If you enjoyed this episode, please consider providing an honest rating of the show here www.mentalhealthtodayshow.com/reviews/new . Disclaimer: The Mental Health Today Show is for educational purposes only and should not be interpreted as therapy. If you are seeking therapy, please contact a licensed therapist for help. Ready for weekly tips to quiet overthinking and reclaim mental freedom? Subscribe to The Mental Freedom newsletter, actionable insights delivered for high achievers and overthinkers. Sign up here: https://johncordray.me/subscribe From John Cordray, LPC – Creator of MyndStill app @JohnCordrayLPC on X/LinkedIn Informational support only—not a substitute for professional therapy. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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