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EPISODE · Nov 23, 2023 · 38 MIN

Thankful for You

from At a Total Loss · host Katherine Lazar

I figured today was heavy for a lot of us so I asked Andrea, Terra's Mom, from episode 59 to hop on a quick recording with like 2 hours notice. I scrapped my whole plan for this week and just wanted a conversation that might be entertaining for those who may need it. We do cover baby death as we both had full term stillbirths and miss our babies tremendously but we have given ourselves "permission" to laugh if we need to. And we hope you can do the same. Take care of yourselves today, Mommas. Know we are always here for you...We answer:How has your family reacted to your dark humor when it comes to baby loss?How do you cut out toxic people?How do you handle your partner who is so thankful you're alive but you really don't feel like you are?What's your coping vice?We also talk about:Gratitude and Grief at the same timeHolidays and having no expectationsThe expectations put on usGoing to PTO meetings when grievingExplaining yourself for the way you are after lossLaughing as opposed to cryingHow much this is horrible but we are allowed to do this however we wantLaughing is OKFollow Andrea @grievinglikeamother and show her support by shopping her store @thegriefcloset*************************************NOTE: I am not a doctor or a therapist. The views of my guests are not always reflective of my own.  I am just a real life loss mom describing her experiences with life after loss. These are my experiences, and I'm putting it out there so you feel less alone. Always do your own research and make informed decisions!For more REAL TALK about baby loss and grief, hit subscribe to be notified when another episode drops!Support the podcast and shop the store!  At a Total Loss Shop Instagram @thekatherinelazar Youtube: @thekatherinelazarEmail: [email protected]: www.katherinelazar.com 

I figured today was heavy for a lot of us so I asked Andrea, Terra's mom, from episode 59 to hop on a quick recording with like 2 hours notice. I scrapped my whole plan for this week and just wanted a conversation that might be entertaining for those who may need it. We do cover baby death as we both had full term stillbirths and miss our babies tremendously but we have given ourselves "permission" to laugh if we need to. And we hope you can do the same. Take care of yourselves today, Mommas. Know we are always here for you... I polled my IG audience and picked a couple questions to ask her: We answer: How has your family reacted to your dark humor when it comes to baby loss? How do you cut out toxic people? How do you handle your partner who is so thankful you're alive but you really don't feel like you are? What's your coping vice? We also talk about: Gratitude and Grief at the same time Holidays and having no expectations The expectations put on us Going to PTO meetings when grieving Explaining yourself for the way you are after loss Laughing as opposed to crying How much this is horrible but we are allowed to do this however we want Laughing is OK Follow Andrea @grievinglikeamother and show her support by shopping her store @thegriefcloset ************************************* NOTE: I am not a doctor or a therapist. The views of my guests are not always reflective of my own.  I am just a real life loss mom describing her experiences with life after loss. These are my experiences, and I'm putting it out there so you feel less alone. Always do your own research and make informed decisions! For more REAL TALK about baby loss and grief, hit subscribe to be notified when another episode drops! Support the podcast and shop the store!  At a Total Loss Shop  Instagram @thekatherinelazar  Youtube: @thekatherinelazar Email: [email protected] Website: www.katherinelazar.com   Some helpful resources: https://countthekicks.org/ https://www.measuretheplacenta.org/ https://www.pushpregnancy.org/ https://www.tommys.org/   Local to Atlanta: https://www.northsidepnl.com/

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