The 80/20 principle.In a fairly healthy relationship you will only get 80% of your desires fulfilled

In a fairly healthy relationship, you will get only 80% of your desires fulfilled. I believe that the people who can give the 80% cannot complete the remaining 20% and the people who can give the remaining 20% do not have the rock solid 80%. In actual sense, the 20% is like the cream on the cake; who does not like the cream on the cake? However, there has to be the cake before the cream on it becomes valid; a cream without cake is a messy affair. Many have primed themselves for the endless search to a futile 20% without the most important substance. The 80% part refers to the fundamental attributes that sustain a marriage while the remaining 20% is not fundamental; it can be compared to a wish list