The Attractive Standard

Welcome to Phase 2! The goal is high level self-development and high level relationships. Most people want it, only a few actually do it. But it's available to EVERYONE.In this episode I explain the framework we'll be working out of for the foreseeable future.Timestamps are approximate:02:30 Regrouping from Phase 1 and years of this work03:45 From business school to therapist school, shoutout to Dr. Erika Grafsky08:30 Lunch with Marissa Layton in Atlanta10:30 The broader relationship conversation11:50 People who cannot or will not change for the better should be left behind14:50  Be free from the ones who won't listen and don't care16:10 The inherent value of every human being17:50 People who value growth20:44 A human architect and thought models22:25 Winner winner25:35 My definition of an attractive match27:45 Are you going to do something about it or not?29:35 Doing 'white people stuff'31:25 Life-oriented results32:05 Christianity and God are not synonyms32:35 Fakers35:35 Building yourself is a process and the ones who build are the best matches36:12 Why we are the best matches36:44 Self-esteem, Energy, Responsibility37:05 Where do you fall on the spectrum?40:30 Too easy and dumb to be negative42:00 Scarcity in the dating market44:40 'I'm not there yet'47:30 Be honest and willing49:00 Most people are not attractive matches51:00 No one in their right mind would choose certain people53:20 Becoming attractive54:15 Wealthy is more than money55:20 No competition for high energy57:40 Let's win01:00:00 My goal01:01:15 People confusing each other because they have different goals01:02:45 How to think for great relationships01:04:00 If you learn what I teach you, you will win01:07:00 Listening to people who aren't really trying to help you01:08:10 Working with couples who want to be highly synergistic 01:09:10 Some couples are just incompatible01:11:00 Understand how individuals work together, should you cut your losses?01:11:30 Prepare when you're single so you save time01:13:45 An attractive match is everybody's type01:15:15 Everyone wants to marry the same type of person01:17:10 'How do I become a marry-able person?'01:18:40 Attractive matches and physical qualities01:19:50 Attractive matches do tend to look better01:22:50 My aligned audience and ideal client01:23:20 Self-actualization and relationship actualization01:24:40 Minor leagues and major leagues01:28:15 People whose purpose includes being single01:29:00 I don't think relationship people are better01:30:30 The disempowered man and the entitled woman01:34:50 I do too many disclaimers01:37:00 New interest formPlease leave a Review and Rate the podcast!I've changed a lot on my website - check it out here: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/LinkTree: https://linktr.ee/iamtaylorchandlerInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamtaylorchandler/🔔 CONNECT AND WORK WITH TAYLOR:🖥  Explore My Practice-- https://taylorchandlerwalker.com/💬 Work With Me -- Request a consultation👁️ Weekly Relationship Insights: -- Subscribe to Substack📱Follow on Instagram -- @iamtaylorchandlerDisclaimer: The content provided in this video is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health care or therapy.#Relationships #RelationshipAdvice #TaylorChandler #LMFT #Relationship Dynamics #CouplesTherapy #MarriageAdvice