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EPISODE · Dec 22, 2025 · 1 MIN

The Big Lie that Leta Boylan is trying to intimidate me out of reporting.

from Ex Marks the Rot · host Exulansic

Update belowLeta and others have been claiming publicly and privately that organizations have ignored medical reports from a physical exam of a specific person, documenting physical injuries, stemming from an event occurring this month.Here is where Boylan admitted this morning that I have been in touch with all relevant parties since the immediate aftermath.They've been insisting until now that I had no direct knowledge of the lack of physical exam. Even still, in this post, they allege conjecture. No, ma'am. I never “sought out” the alleged victim. Ari put me and many other people in touch with her to offer support. Now it's being turned against me because I noticed that they were lying, and as a survivor myself, I found that abhorrent and inexplicable. Here, Leta admits the “anonymous friends” accusing me are both part of this group that is now lying to protect the other lies. Leta says she never would out a rape victim. She's working her way through the Narcissist’s Prayer. That thing that she'd never do, she did. You can't relay an exchange where I have dialogue about when I reported my rape, without outing me as a rape victim. They have no information I want or need, also.I have not always gone to the police when men have hurt me. I'm not unusual. Many adult women would understand why this is not a believable smear. But Leta isn't most women. So she started with a ridiculous lie, and she exaggerates the lie every time it starts to falter. Saturday, it was 1. Now it's 2. Tomorrow it will be 4. In a few weeks, I will have pressured all living unreported rape survivors to report immediately. Mark my words. She'll keep embellishing. To summarize, I believe the alleged victim in this case, who has made no public statements. Anything publicly said about her by the group led by the woman who likes to weaponize embellished narratives of other women's experiences, should be viewed with suspicion. This young woman deserves support, not to be used as a pawn. I never got justice myself, even though I reported the next day. That was the point of my anecdote. But maybe I got too upset to finish the thought, and it came across wrong. I had no idea this woman had made it about her. The second woman doesn't exist, and likely was made up to gaslight the woman who betrayed me into thinking someone else told her the same thing. I rarely discuss this. I am very intentional about who I discuss it with. Or rather, I was, until Leta ignored my lack of consent tobeing outed as a rape victim as a set up for a smear. It's difficult to talk about. That's why I don't. This woman is no friend of survivors of either medical sexual abuse or other sexual violence. Update: they're now lying that I disclosed the rape at the Yolo Library event I spoke at in August. This is false. This was a completely unrelated incident I referenced. I characterized it as “sexual assault,” not rape. I did not report it to the police. Big part of why it's so ridiculous to suggest I think I'm better than other women just because one time, I reported the next day. This woman is no friend to rape survivors. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit exulansic.substack.com/subscribe

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