The Cognitive Shield: Why We Dismiss Our Spouse’s Needs

In this episode Paul explains the ‘cognitive shield’—our tendency to dismiss a spouse’s needs to avoid feeling inadequate—and lists common valid needs couples often overlook. He challenges listeners to set aside fear and pride, validate their partner’s wants, and take the first step toward doing marriage well.

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