The Consequences of My Addiction — 10 Lessons I Learned the Hard Way

Money, cars, a house — all recoverable. Your health and your life aren't. That's one of ten lessons I pulled from the consequences of my addiction.Before I get into them: if you hear one of these and think "mine wasn't that bad" or "mine was worse" — stop comparing. Look for the similarities, not the differences. Our circumstances differ, but I know addiction, so I know what you're going through.After 11 years in and around recovery — a relapse at seven and a half years, and a year and a half back now — here's what the wreckage taught me:It always gets worse when I pick up. I'm the cautionary tale.Debt — and finding out shopping was a cross-addiction I still have to watchThe accidents: "I haven't done it yet" beats "I'd never do that"A health scare that showed me exactly where I was headedBeing homeless isn't fun — and how a lower bottom finally got me readyLosing jobs, and pointing the finger inwardJekyll and Hyde: I become a different person when I useHonesty is the best policy — especially when it costs meMaterial things come back. Health and life often don't.Accountability, forgiveness, and the family that isn't owed to mePeer perspective only — this isn't medical or clinical advice. If you're struggling or in crisis, please reach out to someone you trust or a local support line.Which lesson hit hardest? Tell me in the comments.This episode is supported by New Beginnings Recovery Home (newbeginningsrecovery.ca) — the same place I go to share my story with clients. If you or someone you love needs a supportive place to land, DM the word HOME and our automation will point you in the right direction. (Disclosed partnership.)Recovering Out Loud — Real stories.