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EPISODE · Jul 23, 2025 · 1H 9M

The Dark Side of the Soft Girl Era: Motherhood, Entrepreneurship, and Social Media’s Pressure to Be Someone You’re Not with Angie Lee

from Unemployed : Entrepreneurship & Self Improvement · host Paige Vandy

In this episode, Paige sits down with Angie Lee for a no-filter, fly-on-the-wall conversation about the Soft Girl Era, motherhood journeys, masculine & feminine culture on Instagram & TikTok, social media influence and the messy psychology behind chasing “the slow life." This isn’t a curated interview—we're sitting down and being brutally honest about our personal experiences with the "soft girl" lifestyle — like what happens when you buy into the narrative that slowing all the way down, frolicking in the fields, and living a “trad wife” life will make you happier. Spoiler: for some women, it’s the very thing that makes them miserable. If you’ve ever wondered whether you should lean into the soft girl lifestyle, feel guilty for wanting something outside of motherhood, or feel like you’re doing womanhood “wrong” because you’re ambitious—this convo is a must listen, my girl <3 You’ll discover: The dark side of the Soft Girl Era—why so many women are realizing it’s not actually making them happier The fertility space problem—how rigid “do this, don’t do that” advice is wrecking women’s mental health Motherhood + ambition—why being fulfilled outside of your kids can actually make you a better mom if that's who you truly are The psychology behind why slow-living content goes viral (and why so many women secretly feel trapped by it) Our personal stories of leaving the hustle, trying the soft life, and realizing it wasn’t the answer If you’ve ever felt like you’re stuck between wanting to do it all and feeling like you’re supposed to slow down, this episode will feel like a deep exhale. More From Unemployed: If you liked this episode, I think you'll also like... Emily Duncan On Standing Out As A Multi-Passionate Entrepreneur, Balancing "Both Girl" Energy, & Why She Pulled Back From Spirituality Creating a Physical Product, Hosting Live Events, Boss Babe vs Soft Girl, and The Power of Networking with Angie Lee Inside My Most Humbling Business Year Yet... This is Raw: WE'RE BACK RAT GIRLS! If you're an entrepreneur building & growing a MEMBERSHIP COMMUNITY, check out: Million Dollar Memberships Club to start and grow your own membership site community and build your recurring revenue. Listen to the Million Dollar Memberships Podcast here Free Training: The 4-Part System to Launch & Scale a 6 & 7 Figure Membership https://paigevandy.com/masterclass-opt-in Let’s connect: IG @themembershipmuse TikTok @membershipmuseofficial Want to work with Paige 1 on 1 to grow your membership community? Email at [email protected] Connect with Angie Lee: Instagram: @angieleeshow @get.soul This podcast is for ambitious women who want real, unfiltered conversations about building a successful brand and a life you actually want to live. If you love shows like the Skinny Confidential Him & Her by Lauryn & Michael Bosstick, Call Her Daddy by Alex Cooper, Earn Your Happy by Lori Harder and Almost 30 by Krista Williams & Lindsey Simcik…you’ll feel right at home here.

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