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EPISODE · May 21, 2026 · 1H 19M

The Dating Coach Exposing The Truth About Pick-Up Artists - Ablaze

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The crew welcomes special guest co-host Dana June as they sit down with dating coach Erik Carlberg, better known in the pickup artist community as Ablaze. While the legendary dating coach Mystery was scheduled to appear, Ablaze steps in to deliver an incredible masterclass on the evolution of the pickup artist industry, modern dating dynamics, and the psychology of attraction.Ablaze breaks down the origins of the pickup community, tracing it back from underground chat forums and Project Hollywood to the mainstream VH1 reality show. He discusses the concepts in his massive new 642-page book, "The Vortex of Love," which focuses on Ideal Mate Theory rather than the standard evolutionary mate selection models pushed by most dating coaches. The group explores the crucial difference between dating confidence and actual competence, how high-status celebrities and athletes often lack basic game, and why mastering the timing of sexual escalation is the most difficult hurdle for men to overcome.The conversation takes a deep dive into the modern male loneliness epidemic and the massive rise of the Red Pill community. Ablaze shares his honest take on how extreme toxic masculinity and manipulative dating tactics are ultimately hurting men by creating negative feedback loops that prevent them from finding authentic, long-term relationships. He also reveals the behind-the-scenes reality of running intense dating bootcamps with Mystery across the country, which range from five-thousand-dollar seminars to exclusive thirteen-thousand-dollar residential training programs.Be sure to like, comment, and subscribe for more unfiltered interviews and Las Vegas podcast episodes!Check out ABLAZE's Book:https://www.datingcoachformen.com/bookAmazon: https://a.co/d/024kjOeR

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