The Dead Names #22: Sheila Jean "Louis Graydon 'Lou'" Sullivan

A woman leaves her husband to live and die “as a gay man.” She’s been lionized for her stunning bravery in places such as the New York Times, but long-time readers will recognize the tropes we see again and again in FTMs:* Self-mutilation is for some reason a major life priority.* Getting men’s health problems is validating* But the fourth ball stayed in!* Necrotic bottom surgery* A trans widower* lack of regret despite obvious harms* questionable social behavior such as gloating to past doctors about her impending death. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit exulansic.substack.com/subscribe