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EPISODE · Feb 19, 2026 · 43 MIN

The Eldest Daughter Guilt

from Home Girls Unite · host HomeGirlsUnite

If you grew up feeling like the "third parent" in your house, this episode is for you.We sat down to talk about the heavy burden placed on eldest daughters—especially in immigrant families. We discuss why setting boundaries feels like a crime, why being called "selfish" should actually be a compliment , and how to finally stop throwing yourself under the bus just to keep the peace.It’s time to stop parenting your parents. Let’s talk about it.You can watch this episode on Youtube Book a RANT session⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.Anonymously send your eldest daughter confessions ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Find us on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Email us:  [email protected]

If you grew up feeling like the "third parent" in your house, this episode is for you.We sat down to talk about the heavy burden placed on eldest daughters—especially in immigrant families. We discuss why setting boundaries feels like a crime, why being called "selfish" should actually be a compliment , and how to finally stop throwing yourself under the bus just to keep the peace.It’s time to stop parenting your parents. Let’s talk about it.You can watch this episode on Youtube Book a RANT session⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.Anonymously send your eldest daughter confessions ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Find us on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Email us:  [email protected]

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