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EPISODE · May 27, 2026 · 16 MIN

The Exhaustion of Performing Happiness

from The Love, Her Podcast: Breathwork, Healing and Coming Home to Yourself · host Laura Kistner

What happens when you spend years pretending you’re okay… when deep down, you’re drowning?In this deeply vulnerable episode, Laura opens up about the emotional exhaustion that comes from performing happiness, hiding your struggles, and trying to be the version of yourself you think everyone expects.From the outside, her life looked successful – a good marriage, healthy children, a doctorate degree, a career she worked hard for. But internally, she felt disconnected, numb, and completely lost from herself.This episode is an honest conversation about:The hidden emotional cost of “holding it together”Why burnout goes deeper than stress or responsibilityHow emotional suppression keeps your nervous system stuck in survival modeThe loneliness of being “seen” but not truly knownWhy vulnerability is actually one of the greatest forms of strengthHow reconnecting to your true self changes everythingThe first steps to stop performing and start embodying the real youLaura also guides listeners through a calming reflective exercise to help you reconnect with yourself and explore where you may be hiding behind a version of who you think you need to be.If you’ve ever smiled while silently struggling…If you’ve ever felt disconnected from yourself…If you’ve ever felt exhausted trying to be “okay” all the time…This episode is for you.✨ The most powerful version of you is not the perfect version.✨ It’s the honest version.✨ The real version.And that is where true healing begins.—💫 Work With LauraIf you are ready to stop performing and start reconnecting to your true self, Laura currently has limited openings for 1:1 coaching. You can schedule a free discovery call here.🌿 Join Me at Exhale: A Women’s EventLaura will be speaking and leading a HypnoBreathwork session on June 13th.This event is designed to help women reconnect to themselves through healing modalities, community, rest, and reflection.✨ ⁠Learn More + Register🎙️ Love The Love, Her Podcast?Please follow, rate, and share this episode with someone who needs the reminder that she doesn’t have to keep pretending she’s okay.💌 Sign up for the Weekly NewsletterAnd remember:You don’t have to become someone else.You just have to come home to yourself.

What happens when you spend years pretending you’re okay… when deep down, you’re drowning?In this deeply vulnerable episode, Laura opens up about the emotional exhaustion that comes from performing happiness, hiding your struggles, and trying to be the version of yourself you think everyone expects.From the outside, her life looked successful – a good marriage, healthy children, a doctorate degree, a career she worked hard for. But internally, she felt disconnected, numb, and completely lost from herself.This episode is an honest conversation about:The hidden emotional cost of “holding it together”Why burnout goes deeper than stress or responsibilityHow emotional suppression keeps your nervous system stuck in survival modeThe loneliness of being “seen” but not truly knownWhy vulnerability is actually one of the greatest forms of strengthHow reconnecting to your true self changes everythingThe first steps to stop performing and start embodying the real youLaura also guides listeners through a calming reflective exercise to help you reconnect with yourself and explore where you may be hiding behind a version of who you think you need to be.If you’ve ever smiled while silently struggling…If you’ve ever felt disconnected from yourself…If you’ve ever felt exhausted trying to be “okay” all the time…This episode is for you.✨ The most powerful version of you is not the perfect version.✨ It’s the honest version.✨ The real version.And that is where true healing begins.—💫 Work With LauraIf you are ready to stop performing and start reconnecting to your true self, Laura currently has limited openings for 1:1 coaching. You can schedule a free discovery call here.🌿 Join Me at Exhale: A Women’s EventLaura will be speaking and leading a HypnoBreathwork session on June 13th.This event is designed to help women reconnect to themselves through healing modalities, community, rest, and reflection.✨ ⁠Learn More + Register🎙️ Love The Love, Her Podcast?Please follow, rate, and share this episode with someone who needs the reminder that she doesn’t have to keep pretending she’s okay.💌 Sign up for the Weekly NewsletterAnd remember:You don’t have to become someone else.You just have to come home to yourself.

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