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Aug 25, 2025 16 min

The Five Lessons That Saved Me When I Started Over

from The Selfish Woman

This is the one I've been waiting to record. In this final episode before The Selfish Year enters the world, I'm sharing the five lessons that truly saved me when I started over - from divorce, from the pain, from the life that looked good but felt empty. These aren't tips. They're confessions. I wrote this book in blood, and I'm telling you the truth behind every chapter. If you've ever felt stuck, invisible, or like you're pretending to live a life that isn't yours, this episode is your invitation to stop waiting. It's not too late to choose yourself. But it is the last week to pre-order The Selfish Year and support the book that starts a movement! CLICK HERE to pre-order The Selfish Year and get your gift: The Selfish Woman Starter Kit (includes a Manifesto, the 7 Sacred Laws of the Selfish Woman, and a curated playlist I made to accompany the book) Tag me with your book! IG: @thevaleriejones You're not meant to survive your life. You're meant to own it. Love you. Mean it. Val

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