The Hidden Ways You Abandon Yourself

You may love yourself in theory—but what does the evidence say?In this episode, Coach Vee breaks down the hidden ways women abandon themselves, often without realizing it. From ignoring red flags and betraying personal boundaries to silencing emotional needs, staying too long, and seeking validation from people who were never qualified to define your worth, self-abandonment can quietly shape every area of your life.This conversation goes beyond surface-level self-love and explores what loving yourself actually looks like in practice. That includes the way you manage your emotions, care for your mental health, steward your finances, honor your body, and evaluate the people who have access to your life.You’ll also hear biblical wisdom on self-worth, stewardship, boundaries, discernment, and why healing is not selfish—it is part of becoming a healthier, wiser, and more emotionally stable woman.In this episode, you’ll learn:• How self-abandonment shows up in dating, friendships, family, and everyday decisions• Why people-pleasing is often self-betrayal disguised as kindness• How unresolved wounds affect emotional stability and relationship choices• The five areas that reveal whether self-love is truly present• Why knowing your worth means very little if your choices do not reflect it• How to begin choosing yourself without guilt, fear, or shameYou deserve the kind of love from yourself that you have spent years hoping to receive from others.Ready to go deeper? Join Ascend21, the 21-day self-love challenge designed to help you develop greater awareness, acceptance, emotional stability, healthier habits, and a stronger relationship with the woman God created you to be.Register here!