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Freedom Reigns
by Freedom Reigns
I'm Coach Vee, the New Love Strategist with The New Love Collective. As a 6x certified love coach, I help Christian women experience freedom from religion in order to successfully date in modern times, prepare healthy relationships, and overall win at love! And that's God's love, self-love, and real love!
Episodes
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Don't Think You're Ready for Love Because You're Lonely
It's cuffing season, the holidays are approaching, and suddenly being single feels a little heavier than it did a few months ago. But sis, before you start entertaining that ex, lowering your standards, or convincing yourself you're ready for a relationship simply because you're tired of being...
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When the Past Keeps Showing Up in Present-Day Relationships
Your past is not just your ex. It includes what you learned about love in childhood, what you watched in your home, what you had to become to feel safe, what you learned to tolerate, what you learned to fear, and the beliefs you formed after rejection, betrayal, abandonment, inconsistency, and...
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You Do Not Need More Dating Tips—You Need a Dating System
You do not need another random dating tip saved to your phone. You need a system. In this episode of Freedom Reigns, Coach Vee breaks down why isolated dating advice rarely creates lasting change when you do not have a clear process for how you meet men, pace connections, vet character, evaluate...
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Who Are You When No One Is Choosing You?
What happens to a woman’s identity when no one is texting, pursuing, complimenting, or choosing her? In this transparent episode, Coach Vee explores how prolonged singleness, male attention, rejection, comparison, and relationship status can quietly shape a woman’s sense of worth. We are going...
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The Men You Choose Have a Backstory
The men you choose are not random, sis. The emotionally unavailable man, the inconsistent man, the man with potential, the man who gives you just enough attention to keep you hoping, and the man who feels familiar before he ever proves himself fruitful may all be connected to something deeper…
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The Hidden Ways You Abandon Yourself
You may love yourself in theory—but what does the evidence say? In this episode, Coach Vee breaks down the hidden ways women abandon themselves, often without realizing it. From ignoring red flags and betraying personal boundaries to silencing emotional needs, staying too long, and seeking...
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Why You're STILL Not Attracting the Man You Pray For
Are there really no good men out there... or is something deeper happening? In this powerful episode, Coach Vee explores one of the hardest truths many Christian women must confront: sometimes the issue isn't finding the right man—it's the patterns, wounds, beliefs, and behaviors that keep...
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The Truth About Readiness: Why Some Women Get Chosen and Others Don’t
What does it REALLY mean to be “ready” for love? In this episode, Coach Vee breaks down one of the biggest misconceptions in modern dating and Christian singleness: the belief that wanting a relationship automatically means you’re prepared for a healthy one. This conversation goes deeper than...
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You’re Not Waiting on God for Love—You’re Avoiding Alignment
Some women say they’re “waiting on God” for love… …but what if the real issue isn’t waiting? What if it’s avoidance, fear, emotional patterns, lack of alignment, or dating from wounded habits instead of wisdom? In this powerful episode, Coach Vee dismantles the delay mindset many Christian women...
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Prayer for Love Isn't the Problem—Your Strategy Is
You’ve been praying for love. You’ve asked God for clarity, consistency, and a healthy relationship… So why does your dating life still feel confusing, inconsistent, or stuck? In this episode, we’re addressing a hard truth: Prayer isn’t the problem. Your lack of strategy is. Because while many...
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Your Patterns Are Blocking What You're Praying For
You’ve been praying for a healthy relationship. You’ve asked God for clarity, consistency, and something real… So why do you keep ending up in the same situations? In this episode, we’re having an honest conversation about the role your patterns play in your love life—and why what you’re doing...
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Men Aren’t Confusing—You’re Misreading Them (Here’s What He’s Actually Showing You)
Men aren’t as confusing as they seem… but they are often misread. In this episode, we break down what’s really happening beneath the surface of male behavior—and why so many women feel confused, frustrated, or stuck in dating. You’ll learn: • What men actually value (respect, peace, and loyalty)…
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Emotionally Unavailable Men vs Emotionally Unavailable Women
Why do so many women feel like they keep attracting emotionally unavailable men? And what if the issue isn’t just who you’re attracting… but also how you’re showing up? In this episode, we break down the difference between emotionally unavailable men and emotionally unavailable women—and how both...
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Red Flag or Trauma Trigger? The Difference Could Save Your Love Life
In modern dating, everyone is talking about red flags. But there’s a conversation many people aren’t having — the difference between a genuine red flag and a trauma trigger. Both can feel uncomfortable. Both can make you pause. Both can make you think something is wrong. But they don’t come from...
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You're Not Misunderstanding Him—You're Triggered!
Most women believe they have a man problem. But what if the real issue isn’t men… it’s the lens you’re seeing them through? In this episode, Coach Vee breaks down one of the most misunderstood dynamics in modern dating: the difference between discernment and trauma response. When your heart has...
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The Cost of Dating Before Healing
Dating before healing is expensive. Not financially — emotionally, mentally, and spiritually. In this episode, Coach Vee breaks down why so many women repeat the same relationship dynamic with different men… and how unhealed attachment patterns quietly shape who you feel “chemistry” with. You’ll...
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Why Valentine’s Day Makes Unhealed Hearts Loud
Valentine’s Day doesn’t create insecurity. It exposes it. In this episode, we unpack why February tends to make unhealed hearts loud — especially for single women who are praying for love but still wrestling with attachment wounds, comparison, and the need to be chosen. You’ll learn: • Why...
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God Prepares Partners—Not Just Answers Prayers
You’ve prayed for love.You’ve trusted God with your heart.But dating still feels confusing, draining, or stuck. In this episode, we’re having an honest conversation about what God actually prepares before partnership—and why answered prayers require readiness, not just faith. Using Genesis 2:18…
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Discernment Is a Love Skill—Not a Personality Trait
You can love God deeply and still choose relationships that disrupt your peace. In this episode, Coach Vee breaks down why so many Christian women confuse chemistry with confirmation—and how attraction, when left unexamined, can override discernment every time. Discernment isn’t intuition. It…
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Healing Isn’t Optional — It’s Positional
Healing isn’t optional when it comes to love—it’s positional. In this episode, Coach Vee breaks down why prayer, patience, and good intentions alone don’t stop recurring relationship patterns. If you keep ending up in the same emotional place with different people, the issue isn’t luck, timing…
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Why Nothing is Changing in Your Love Life (& What Staying Comfortable is Really Costing You)
You’re praying.You’re self-aware.You’ve done the work—at least enough to know what the issue is. So why does nothing seem to be changing? In this episode, Coach Vee breaks down a hard but liberating truth: awareness alone does not produce transformation. Many women stop at insight, believing that...
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Why Waiting Isn't the Problem - Misalignment Is
You’ve prayed.You’ve waited.You’ve hoped God would change the pattern. But what if waiting isn’t the problem? In this episode, Coach Vee breaks down why misalignment—not timing—is often the real reason love hasn’t shifted, even for faithful, self-aware Christian women. This is a teaching-heavy,...
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The Hard Truth About Why You Keep Ending Up Alone
Why do you keep ending up alone—even though you pray, wait, and try to do things God’s way? In this episode, Coach Vee delivers a hard but freeing truth: you’re not unlucky in love—you’re being invited into alignment. This conversation goes beyond surface-level dating advice and digs into the...
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Why Love Still Hasn’t Found You (And What Needs to Happen So It Does)
If you’ve been praying for love, doing “the work,” and still wondering why nothing seems to move forward, this episode is for you. In this conversation, Coach Vee compassionately but clearly names the ways many women unknowingly contribute to their own stagnation in love—not through failure, but...
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How Unrecognized Trauma Is Silently Sabotages the Love Life You're Praying For
There are the wounds you know you carry… and then there are the ones that quietly rewrite your standards, shape your reactions, sabotage your discernment, and keep you choosing familiar pain instead of aligned partnership. In this transformational episode, Coach Vee exposes the subtle…
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Trauma-Driven Attraction: Why You Crave the Wrong Men When You Feel Lonely.
This episode dives into one of the most overlooked truths about love, dating, and emotional patterns: the pull you feel toward the wrong men—especially in December—is rarely about desire. It’s often unhealed trauma doing the choosing. In this teaching, Coach Vee breaks down why loneliness feels...
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Don't Let Cuffin' Season Talk You Out of Covenant
Cuffin’ Season is not harmless. It’s not cute. It’s not “just winter fun.” This is the season where more women sabotage their destiny, silence their discernment, and settle for men they wouldn’t even look at twice in July — simply because the weather is cold, the days are shorter, and loneliness…
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The Makings of a Man: What Healed Women Understand That Others Don’t
If you’ve ever asked, “Where are the good men?” …this episode is the reset you didn’t know you needed. Today, we’re unpacking what truly makes a man qualified for partnership — not by culture’s standards, but through the lens of emotional intelligence, spiritual maturity, psychological readiness,...
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Why Men Don’t Commit (And Why Women Keep Choosing Them Anyway)
Coach Vee is back on stage with her sister, Kristie Love, for a no-holds-barred reunion of their hit segment “Fleshly Speaking.” This live recording from the Coastal Carolina Fair pulls back the curtain on one of the biggest questions in modern dating: why men don’t commit — and why women keep...
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How Father Wounds Shape Your Dating Standards (and Why Healing Changes Who You Choose)
So many women think God's withholding a good man from them — when really, they have unhealed father wounds shaping their dating choices. In this transformational episode, Coach Vee unpacks the psychology and spirituality behind the father wound — how emotional absence and inconsistent love create...
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You Can't Win at Love With a Wounded Heart
You can pray for love, want love, and even meet a good man — but if your heart is still wounded, you’ll struggle to receive it. In this powerful episode, Coach Vee dives into the psychology and science of emotional pain, revealing how heartbreak, divorce, and disappointment rewire your patterns,...
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How to Stop Letting Fear of the Past Block Your Future in Love
Fear can feel like protection, but in reality, it’s blocking the very thing you’ve been praying for: love. In this episode, Coach Vee gets real about how heartbreak, betrayal, and wasted time create hidden fears that keep you guarded, bitter, and unavailable—even when your heart desires marriage....
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How Your Heart is Hindering Your Love Life
Is it possible that your own heart is the very thing blocking the love you’ve been praying for? 💔 In this episode of Freedom Reigns, Coach Vee unpacks how unhealed pain, bitterness, fear, and shame can sabotage your dating life and keep you stuck in cycles with the wrong men. You’ll discover the...
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Why Christian Marriages Fail (and How to Make Sure Yours Doesn’t)
Why are so many Christian marriages struggling—and even ending early? In this powerful episode, Coach Vee breaks down the hidden reasons believers keep dating poorly and rushing into marriage unprepared. From unhealed wounds and insecurity to fear, loneliness, and spiritual immaturity, we’ll...
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Dating with Trauma: Why You Keep Choosing the Wrong Men
Why do you keep attracting the same type of man—the one who leaves you hurt, drained, or questioning your worth? In this episode, Coach Vee unpacks how unresolved trauma quietly dictates your dating patterns. From ignoring red flags to confusing chemistry with chaos, trauma can make unhealthy...
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Pray, Prepare, Position: The Dating Strategy You’ve Been Missing
You’ve been praying for love… but are you positioned for it? In this hard-hitting episode, Coach Vee (The New Love Strategist) breaks down why prayer alone isn’t enough to see results in your dating life — and what “faith in action” really looks like. If you’ve ever wondered why love hasn’t found...
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You’re Not the Problem: Why the Dating Pool is Broken & How to Date Smarter
Sis, it’s not you—it’s the pool. In this episode, Coach Vee is breaking down the real reason dating feels harder than ever—and why emotionally healthy, commitment-ready women keep getting stuck in cycles of disappointment. You’ll learn: Why modern dating isn’t set up for Kingdom connections How…
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Sex, Shame, & Sovereignty: Redefining Your Sexual Self
Sis… it’s time to talk about the real reason you’ve been saying yes to sex you didn’t want. In this raw and redemptive episode of Freedom Reigns, we’re pulling back the covers—literally and spiritually—to explore how trauma, abandonment, shame, and self-worth wounds have shaped your sexual...
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The Better you Feel, the Better you Date
Sis… what if the real reason your dating life feels off isn’t the men — but your mental, emotional, and physical state? In this episode of Freedom Reigns, Coach Vee dives deep into why your wellbeing is the foundation of your love life. If you’re constantly tired, anxious, or feeling “off,” yet...
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How Loving Yourself FIRST Changes The Men You Attract
Sis, if you keep dating the same man with a different name—or finding yourself in cycles of confusion, disrespect, or situationships—it might not be a them problem. It might be a self-love problem. 💔 In this table-shaking episode, Coach Vee breaks down the deep connection between self-love and...
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Discernment or Defense? How to Stop Sabotaging Real Love While Trying to Protect Your Heart
Are you using discernment—or just defending yourself from disappointment? In this episode, Coach Vee breaks down the real meaning of dating with discernment and why so many women unknowingly sabotage healthy love while trying to guard their hearts. From calling fear “a check in your spirit” to...
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God’s Not Holding Your Love Life Hostage—You Might Be
Sis… what if the delay in your love life isn’t God’s doing—but yours? In this episode, we’re dismantling the faith-based excuses that keep women stuck in cycles of passivity, frustration, and disappointment. You’ll learn the difference between bold faith and inactive hope, why your strategy…
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Stop Waiting, Start Working: The Truth About God’s Timing in Love
Sis… how long are you going to sit around “waiting on God” while doing absolutely nothing to prepare for what you’re praying for? 😅 In this table-shaking episode, I’m coming for all the played-out Christian dating clichés—“keep the faith,” “trust God’s timing,” “when you least expect it”—and...
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Stop Settling for Noise #newmotivation
Loneliness has a way of turning up the volume on our fears, doubts, and desire for connection—sometimes so loud, it drowns out discernment. In this #NewMotivation episode, I’m taking you into the story of Leah in Genesis 29 to show how desperation for love can lead us to settle for the noise of...
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The Real Cure for Loneliness: Preparing for Love While You're Waiting
Are you tired of lonely nights and wondering when your love story will finally begin? In this powerful episode, Coach Vee dives deep into the truth about loneliness, why it’s more dangerous than we realize, and how to turn this season into one of preparation, healing, and hope. Loneliness isn’t...
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Is your Attachment Style Sabotaging your Love Life?
Do you find yourself overthinking texts, getting attached too quickly, or pushing good men away? 👀 Sis, your attachment style might be the silent saboteur of your love life—and in this episode, we’re unpacking it all. In this deep and eye-opening conversation, I break down:💔 What attachment...
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Smart Dating Moves: How to Stop Playing and Start Winning
Sis, it’s time to change the game. If you’re tired of confusion, inconsistency, and wasting time on men who don’t align with your vision, this episode is for you! In today’s conversation, we’re diving into how to date smarter, not harder—how to stop ignoring red flags, protect your heart, and…
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Dating 201: Going Beyond Surface Attraction
Sis, let’s talk. If your dating life feels like a never-ending cycle of first dates that gonowhere, it’s time to make some changes!Attraction might get you a date, but it won’t keep you in the game. If men aren’t following up, if you’re constantly left on read, or if you can’t seem to get past…
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The Power of a Love Vision: How Clarity Attracts your Ideal Man
🎙️ Sis, let’s talk… Are you tired of attracting the wrong men? Stuck in situationships that go nowhere? Wondering why your love life feels like a cycle of confusion and wasted time? Here’s the hard truth: If you don’t have a clear love vision, you will keep attracting chaos, uncertainty, and...
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Winning at Love starts with God: Cultivating a Strong Relationship with Him while Single
📢 Ladies, let’s talk about it—your love life starts with your relationship with God! If you’re frustrated with dating, feeling stuck in cycles of disappointment, or wondering why things just aren’t working out, it’s time to shift your focus. In this episode, I’m breaking down why cultivating a...
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
I'm Coach Vee, the New Love Strategist with The New Love Collective. As a 6x certified love coach, I help Christian women experience freedom from religion in order to successfully date in modern times, prepare healthy relationships, and overall win at love! And that's God's love, self-love, and real love!
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