The Intentionality Gurus with Candace Pollock "Practicing EXTREME Ownership" 1_28_23

Please subscribe to our youtube page to receive notices on all new podcasts as well helping us grow our audience.  * We Appreciate You  https://www.youtube.com/c/NewClevelandRadio  Check out:  https://theintentionalitygurus.com/Facebook  We can have aspirations for a better new year--creating goals/resolutions, schedules, and habits to achieve them.  However, if life will do what life does: throw us curve balls which can disrupt our best laid plans.   Today's podcast explores the work of several mindset and goal gurus toward gaining new perspectives on how to handle inevitable life disruptions to increase the odds we will reach our goals.   Not knowing what today's topic was going to be - Karen wrote this blog:   Word of the Day is NO I am typically a YES person, keeping everyone happy and helping others accomplish their tasks reaching their goals and feeling used even though I was sincere in helping, I often find myself asking the same question over and over again, WHY?  Why do I give up my time, energy, resources for others when I need to provide myself the same luxury I provide to others. We all need to know when to say “NO”, and stop playing the nice ‘guy’ when it is not in our best interests physically, physiologically, and mentally.  For most of life I thought being the nice ‘guy’ or ‘gal’ meant saying Yes and pleasing everyone, even when it felt wrong and painful.  However, I continued to make the attempt to please others because that is what I brought to believe I had to do. Today’s parents are teaching their children to be more mindful and to politely use the word ‘NO’ when the word ‘YES’ is wrong.  The futures of tomorrow are learning to be mindful of their needs as much as those of the people around them.   Using the word ‘NO’ can have a positive affect on you.  Instead of committing to others you are making choices that benefit you and not in a selfish manner. When saying ‘YES’ it is important that you are vested in what you offer to do.   You are not a ‘bad’ person for saying ‘NO’.  I have learned that oftentimes what we don’t do determines what we can do, often quoted by Tim Ferriss (author).  “We need to learn the slow ‘yes’ and the quick ‘no’.” (Author unknown) Thanks to my training in “Personal Intelligence”, I am learning the slow ‘yes’ and the quick ‘no’.   To be a guest or seeking a Personal Coach contact [email protected]